migrating

I just got news that my ffxi fiance left our server for another one, and forgot to tell me. I've been waiting for a month or two now, w/o word from her, and when i do get it, she says shes sorry and forgot. If u guys ever noticed why i, a bard, have a dog collar on, well thats something she...

i've heard from different sources... 1 source saying that if you apply, you will automatically migrate when the deadline arrives. and the 2nd source says that you can apply, but you will not know if you will be selected or not. my dilemma really lies in the fact that if my brother and i apply...