pld or war

kinda new to pld scene i am level 14 pld/war and i was wondering what type of hate pattern should i create or go by???

For everyday things... You forgot to do the dishes, now you have too much hate from your mom, but the PLD/WAR vokes your mom and spams insults(cureing oneself) to keep the hate... At school, you are tardy and the teacher wants to give you a detention, but nope! your PLD/WAR vokes the teach off...