<3 Shitty people for friends

[Ronith]

This has been non-stop for a month now, NOTHING but shit treatment from my old-friends...

I would expect a bit more maturity from people like them, but nothing at all, one of my friends acts like he feels remorse*... but I don't believe him simply because anything I say to him gets repeated infront of Jorge or Dan(Other 2 buddies, Kyle is the one who's acting)

I guess I deserve this for letting them be such pricks to everyone else, but yet I stood idley by and let them do it... never thinking I was going to get the shit end of the stick...

I sat aside letting them bash girls, guys, anything and everything because they were diff. from us, and nothing more, they'd bash big guys and big girls, gay guys lez. girls(Yes they're straight). Nerds, geeks, preps, jocks, gang kids, emo kids(I will admit I love messing with emo kids, but even then, they know I'm jokin around with em...)

It's just not right for the pricks to get away with so much and no one to do anything to them about it, I'm finally standing up to Jorge about what I believe in, and it's gotten me cast out from anyone and everyone near me in this town... I'm tired of being treated like this, and about to kick his ass and be done with it... But I'm too afraid to do it.. because I graduate this year and I don't wanna get kicked out and not be able to grad... and now everyone's doing their reports on HS. and how much fun their Sr. has been, I'm writing about how shitty it is and how much I hate it because of the 3 pricks who know more about me and now they USE IT AGAINST ME in everyway to hurt me or my girlfriend...

Ideas?...

*Edit: Meant Remorse, not resentment*

 

[MayMaythaBiznitch]

Sorry about that Ron , but if you really want to kick his ass do it off school property then the school cant do shit , thats how we were in highschool you got beef take it to the park after school and by the end of the day everyone knew about it and was there . good luck and zel and i miss ya being around ...hehe warriors up to 54 now and zels rdm 70 XD talk to ya laterz

~G~

 

[AxelXII]

Yeah like May said, if you're going to kick his ass Ron, do it in the woods or somewhere else far away from school grounds. As for the treatment stuff, if it's one thing I've learned about Highschool (I'm a Jr...so you probably have a little more experience than me.) it's that you just need to kick back and not give a rat's ass about what people think about you. Life's to short to be worried about shit like that, man. Take it easy and enjoy it while your here. Try expanding your horizons and meeting new people elsewhere, maybe? Just a few tips...hope it goes welll for you. :thumbsup:

 

[Ronith]

Yeah like May said, if you're going to kick his ass Ron, do it in the woods or somewhere else far away from school grounds. As for the treatment stuff, if it's one thing I've learned about Highschool (I'm a Jr...so you probably have a little more experience than me.) it's that you just need to kick back and not give a rat's ass about what people think about you. Life's to short to be worried about shit like that, man. Take it easy and enjoy it while your here. Try expanding your horizons and meeting new people elsewhere, maybe? Just a few tips...hope it goes welll for you. :thumbsup:

I try to ignore em best I can, but it's kind of hard to do... when they yell it out in front of the class, and when I can hear them clearly half way across the room, with my headphones on still...

They just love to eat away at peoples self-confidence, and their self-esteem... - .-;

 

[Trippyhippy]

Fuck em.

Just treat em like dirt under your shoes.

Jorge: <insert random stupid comment>

you: Did I just hear Jorge? Oh, damn man, I thought you went home to practice being a pussy. My bad. <continue what you were doing>

Disrespect them as much as you can, try to make them hit you so they get in trouble at school.

 

[Ronith]

Fuck em.

Just treat em like dirt under your shoes.

Jorge: <insert random stupid comment>

you: Did I just hear Jorge? Oh, damn man, I thought you went home to practice being a pussy. My bad. <continue what you were doing>

Disrespect them as much as you can, try to make them hit you so they get in trouble at school.

Done that plenty of times, but it doesnt work... they know that I'm just trying to get under their skin, and it doesnt work with them, the worst jorge would do is randomly get in my face and threatin me, he's too chicken shit as well to start a fight in school, he doesnt wanna be held back, which would be fine with me, because the princepal made him sign a "No-contact contract"; basically if he starts a fight with me, he gets kicked out of school until next year ^-^; now it's only getting him to start it... I know I can finish it

I'm sitting here in 2nd hour, and I can hear em in the background, and they're still going on about me, and STILL tryin to make fun of me...

I mean shit, I'm hearing "Hahaha what a faggot, he wants to get his japanese name tattoo'd on his back"(Which I already have done...) "He's just a fucking pussy fag, he doesnt do anything and he never will" An now in reference to my g/f and I "Oh Kyle I'm sorry I don't wanna step on ur toes man... Maybe I'll just got cry and write something about being mad or sad" that was in reference to my g/f and my poem I wrote... Here and I'm dating Kyle's Ex-gf and he's kinda mad about that... but eh w/e I like her a lot and she means a lot to me... so if he doesnt like it he can shut the hell up and gtfo... but yea that's only part of it - .-;

 

[Trippyhippy]

Done that plenty of times, but it doesnt work... they know that I'm just trying to get under their skin, and it doesnt work with them, the worst jorge would do is randomly get in my face and threatin me, he's too chicken shit as well to start a fight in school, he doesnt wanna be held back, which would be fine with me, because the princepal made him sign a "No-contact contract"; basically if he starts a fight with me, he gets kicked out of school until next year ^-^; now it's only getting him to start it... I know I can finish it

I'm sitting here in 2nd hour, and I can hear em in the background, and they're still going on about me, and STILL tryin to make fun of me...

I mean shit, I'm hearing "Hahaha what a faggot, he wants to get his japanese name tattoo'd on his back"(Which I already have done...) "He's just a fucking pussy fag, he doesnt do anything and he never will" An now in reference to my g/f and I "Oh Kyle I'm sorry I don't wanna step on ur toes man... Maybe I'll just got cry and write something about being mad or sad" that was in reference to my g/f and my poem I wrote... Here and I'm dating Kyle's Ex-gf and he's kinda mad about that... but eh w/e I like her a lot and she means a lot to me... so if he doesnt like it he can shut the hell up and gtfo... but yea that's only part of it - .-;

I'm tellin ya man, they just do that shit cause they know you let it make you mad. Learn to laugh it off. I mean... Faggot? Is that all they have? This is the fucking 21st century. Even if were gay, you still stole Kyles girlfriend (may not be the case, but you can rub it in).

Not to mention, they sound like they are gonna be a bunch of losers workin in a goddamned resteraunt for the rest of there life. How bout you?

Someone gets up in yer face? Plant a nice fat kiss right on his fuckin mouth. He wants to call you a faggot, let him. Then tell him how comfortable you feel with yer sexuality while yer fuckin his girlfriend.

You can get under anyones skin. You just have to know how to do it.

 

[Bigboy]

Just don't kill him, stuff him in a couch and try to burn the couch in the woods. There just isn't a good explanation for it, and the rangers didn't buy it when my friend's brother explained he was just "burning his trash, because he could not afford to have it taken to the dump."

I think its a safe bet that plan has never worked.

 

[Rorschach]

I'm writing about how shitty it is and how much I hate it because of the 3 pricks who know more about me and now they USE IT AGAINST ME in everyway to hurt me or my girlfriend...

Wouldnt the opposite be true as well? I mean dont you know things about them as well? Things that they might want to keep hidden and secret? Why not use that information against them? You said it yourself that you were their friend for a while, so you should have some sort of "dirt" on them too. If they mess with you, just let out some of their dirty secrets "accidently". :biggrin:

 

[Legomyeggo]

Go racist. :biggrin:

 

[Ronith]

Go racist. :biggrin:

LOL

but Rorsch is right, I guess I could... I try not to stoop to their level, but eh I'm fed up with it and I am tired of the shit... guess I'll do what it takes to make em back off of me^^

 

[Rorschach]

Yeah, while stooping to their level is the last thing you should end up doing, it is still a viable option to get them off your back. I hope it doenst end up happening, cause that stuff really has a habbit of ending relationships.

 

[Ravic]

Never be afraid to "stoop to their level." If your opponents aren't going to follow any rules, then why should you. The only time playing fair will succeed is when it applies to both sides.

And if all else fails, a superkick can end any dispute (so long as you can get your leg that high :biggrin.

 

[Ronith]

Never be afraid to "stoop to their level." If your opponents aren't going to follow any rules, then why should you. The only time playing fair will succeed is when it applies to both sides.

And if all else fails, a superkick can end any dispute (so long as you can get your leg that high :biggrin.

lol, I'm 6'5" I think i can get my leg to their short heights

besides... I'm just wanting to kick their asses and be done, but the thing is... i've been told that if I fight one of em they're all 3 gonna fight, so that's 3 on 1 and Jorge is a bit bigger than I am, which I'm still not afraid to fight him tho... Dan's about my size and Kyle is like, not even half my size... but would really suck to have to fight em all at once..

 

[Bigboy]

Find a way to get them to try and fight you at school in front of a spot where some authority may come by. Even if you start the fight, any passerby seeing 3 people attacking 1 will immediatly draw the conclusion that you're the victim and intervien on your behalf.

If you luck out and it's the right person, they all get suspended and any hint to your principle that they might be thinking of doing it again will get the staff on their cases in an instant. Don't fear the authority. Make them work for you, sinse their job is ultimately to take care of you until you get out of high school.

If these guys beat you up on their way home from school, they can still be suspended. The only way for them to dodge it would be for them to go home first and then come back out to get you.

 

[Rorschach]

Or you could draw it out till around the last month or so before graduation. Then if they attack you, the one kid will have to redo the last full year of school when he was only about a month away from leaving. And that would just be sad. :evilsmile:

 

[DeepDemon]

From personal exp if someone makes fun of you just make a even meaner joke at yourself. someone calls you gay, tell them how you LOVE the cock. someone calls you fat, say how you like eating and you'll eat him if he doesn't shut up. They call your GF fat just say "hey everyone needs loving, i just happen to charge her for it" or "i pay to play" and so on. then ignore them. remember "sticks and stones can break your bones but names can never hurt you"(so sue me its true)

Edit: this is meant to say use words over fighting.

 

[The Druw]

Ronith. My only suggestion is to do what I did in high school.

Tell people things to their face. It may not get you the nobel peace prize, but it's an effective means of stress relief, and generally keeps things drama free. I've often looked people in the eyes and when they get smart with me, or ask my what my problem is, I tell them.

"I don't like you. Now go on about your business"


Generally people don't know how to react to that in a real-world situation.

Everyone is so used to gossip and backstabbing. lol....