OK, no one asked for a "pity-party". All we are asking is that SE consider the issues they caused, provide options to correct it, or at the very least, rethink their strategy for next time. I am only voicing my communications with SE on this (and other) message boards in an attempt to encourage others that feel as I do to also take a moment to let SE know that we feel they handled this poorly. I feel something is unjust, I speak out.
"SE took the most clear cut option and I see nothing wrong with them for doing so."
OK, that seals it. I'm done trying to convince you -- it's futile. You are simply one of the people that don't "get it". I'm happy for you in that you weren't bothered by this. But I feel confident that my opinion is still valid given that many people (I'd venture to say a majority) would agree with me.
Next time they do a merge (and there will be a next time, it's inevitable), I just hope that SE does things differently... Even if all they did was make it so that any duplicate names tagged BOTH the source and destination world accounts as needing to rename, and the first person to log in got to keep the name, it would have been more fair. Sure, someone could still steal a name from a multiple 75's main character with their level 1 mule, but it would certainly be no worse than what they chose to do this time. Only difference is that the characters on the destination worlds would have an equal chance of getting screwed, and abandoned accounts wouldn't keep names by default.
If SE changes the way they do things next time, and one of the people that told us to "stop QQ-ing" gets to keep a name they would have otherwise lost, they can thank those of us that complained to SE. They won't thank us, but they should.
Regardless, as this topic was originally about people being "server-prejudiced", the whole naming fiasco was a derail anyway. So I'll drop it now.