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I think as long as there's a large amount of people not ready to accept gays then the DADT should remain.
Nobody's ever going to be ready to accept gays if they don't get used to it. This was covered in the marriage thread. You can't wait for someone to change their mind and go "hmmmm.. well okay, I guess." Gays have to fight for their rights.
It really is tricky, the don't ask don't tell policy. I understand where it comes from and how the military sees it I think. They're worried that if gay men are stationed with straight men it would cause a distraction, I get that. I just think that gays having the right to be open about it and serve in the military is so much more important then someone being uncomfortable about it.
If you don't have the maturity level to work with other gays, I'm not going to say you shouldn't be serving, I'm going to say you need to up your maturity and professional level to serve. Not saying you don't have the right to serve if you're uncomfortable, but you get my point.
People keep replacing gay with blacks when it comes to gay rights and issues and sometimes it can be too much, but I think that rule can apply here. What if you have a bunch of white men uncomfortable with black men with them? I'm serious here. What is expected of them? To grow the fuck up?