First off, nobody spams voke for fun. Period. Saying "Oh, I didn't mean to steal" is a crock of shit. Anyone who says that is simply reconsidering what seemed like a good idea at the time and has subsequently led to repercussions greater than expected.
Second, TheFlock doesn't need to apologize to anyone. They were wronged, they attempted to have that wrong corrected in game and were rebuffed, and then posted here.
Third, this kind of situation is EXACTLY what the Flameboard is for. If people aren't willing to do the right thing on their own, this forum has the lovely function of letting everyone who uses it (a very significant fraction of the server population) know that someone is doing something wrong. And, quite frankly, this board can serve as a means of punishment, distasteful though that might be, by exposing those who have broken the community standards to public castigation and ridicule.
The leaders of SE fucked up. The people there who abetted the steal fucked up. They compounded their mistake by refusing to do the right thing on the spot. SE's leaders have since further compounded their mistake by posting here and again refusing to admit that they did anything wrong. A select few people have done the right thing by attempted to leverage SE into returning the stolen stone. Saying that TheFlock was wrong because they got abusive after their requests for the stone were denied is asinine. If someone did the same to you, you should be at least honest enough to admit that you'd be cussing and swearing as well, and with good reason.
PS: In theory, right now I should be trying to log back in to the terrible, terrible party I just dc'd from... but honestly, they weren't worth the bullets I was shooting.