I crafted Bilkyz barone for him and it was bought and paid for by his dad, both were very gracious and still wave to me on a regular basis to date...
As for the sidebar conversation about ffxi players in general... I think this game in general attracts a more mature crowd. Of course in any generalization there will be extreme cases in both directions.... I think Bilkys would like wow better lol
Its kinda like that new study that says educated mature people choose blackberry over the iPhone.
Back to bilkyz personal behavior, I think anyone thats grown up in the internet age has taken advantage of the opportunity to use the mask of anonimity to "try-on" different personas. I really dont think he hits on married women in RL
You can be mean, silly, funny, and have it have no reflection on the real you.... of course ultimately as you get older (as I did) your online and your RL personas better reflect each other.... but its probably not wise to do in a healily cooperative game.
The kids 17, he will soon realize the rewards, progress, and online interactions he is being held back from because he doesnt know how to act in a game with a huge society aspect. Sure he can ride his parents coat tails but judging by how his attitude has already impacted so many random people in this thread, it seems even then people would rather not associate with him at all.
Hell either learn and turn this around, or be damned to losing the help of people in our online community and be damned to being a gimp drg forever.