Dad...

Mishaela

Mishaela

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My dad suddenly fell...uhm..deaf, last night. He hit his head on something, and it's impossible to ask what. He's gonna goto the hospital later today (maybe tomarrow), see what's going on or anything...cause it's just really weird.. =\

And to anyone who didn't know - my dad's paralyzed from the center of his chest-down (T-3 or T-7 on the spinal column, currently escaping me right now) so this is...uhm, gonna prove to be a sortof bad problem if it's permanent rather than some temporary thing due to a minor concussion or something...still hafto look into it since I just learned what happened this morning but hadto go straight to school, so yeh..
 
My dad hit his head once... on concrete from about four feet in the air on a ladder...

Injuries suck :(

Hope he gets better =\
 
Hopefully, stuff will get better. But for now, he's in the hospital in crtical condition.
It's like some recurring nightmare, this is like the fourth time he's been hospitalized as critical..
 
love to you and your family, i hope everything works out for all of you.
 
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sorry to hear, now learn sign language, then you and your dad can make fun of ppl in sign, and they wont know wtf your saying.. unless they know sign ~.~
 
He's in critical condition, having liver and kidney failure, and there's an anomaly in his heart they're checking, big regardless of that they don't think he'll live for more than a week, if he's lucky....

And, to two special people....thanks for involving me in that crappy prank and giving me a long "you're too negative" speech for not finding it funny. I'm sure if you lost a cat you've had you're whole life, two grandparents, a great-grandparent, have a best friend diagnosed with stage 3 cancer, and another grandparent diagnosed with stage two cancer, AND your dad's probably gonna die within the week, all happening within about half a year, you'd be a f-!king walking bucket of sunshine and rainbows 24/7 despite the most inappropriate of jokes, right? I may not be the most bubbly person in the world, but again, way to go on that one-hour speech about how I have no right to be in a bad mood and even having the guts to say I don't have any reason to be upset. Have you not experienced death, or do you just not care about your family?
 
I'm sorry Ish. Your father, your family and you will all be in my prayers. Part of why I haven't been on much lately is because I am going through similar issues with my family.
 
Ish, some people just suck at life, aka those who talk about you being to negative. I'm sorry for all the crap you're going through, and I wish there was something I could do for you. All I can do is say that I hope the best for you. If you ever need anything, my Yahoo is andrew_strife, aim, Divinus Andrew, MSN [email protected], and, Malchiah in XI. :x I'll do whatever I can to make this easier. Just know some of us stand by you.

So. Stand strong like I know you are. ^^


- Mal.
 
Mishaela said:
And, to two special people....thanks for involving me in that crappy prank and giving me a long "you're too negative" speech for not finding it funny. I'm sure if you lost a cat you've had you're whole life, two grandparents, a great-grandparent, have a best friend diagnosed with stage 3 cancer, and another grandparent diagnosed with stage two cancer, AND your dad's probably gonna die within the week, all happening within about half a year, you'd be a f-!king walking bucket of sunshine and rainbows 24/7 despite the most inappropriate of jokes, right? I may not be the most bubbly person in the world, but again, way to go on that one-hour speech about how I have no right to be in a bad mood and even having the guts to say I don't have any reason to be upset. Have you not experienced death, or do you just not care about your family?
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A) Go get some therapy

B) You're not the only person in the world who has experienced tragedy in a short period of time.

C) You're not a victim.

D) It's these back-handed comments meant to make others out to be some kind of evil people while you yourself are some helpless, defenseless person who did absolutely nothing to provoke certain situations that really irritate me, especially when they are directed at my friends. If you wanna blame your piss-poor attitude and selfish nature on the things that are going on in your life rencently, that's your business. But don't expect everyone to just throw up their hands and give you a pity party. You want sympathy, I can understand that and it is justified, but you need to realize you're not the only and you need to be a little more respectful.

I know I sound like a cold-hearted son of a bitch, but I don't like people throwing out these one-sided snide remarks at my friends. Especially when they are only half-truths and full of a lot of misrepresented information. You're like one of the Four Horseman of the Apocalypse, but instead of Hell or Death following behind you it's Drama. Regardless of what you or others may think, I do wish you the best. You've got a lot to deal with right now and I know what it's like to go through stuff like that. Seriously though get yourself some help, you need it.

And for those who want to jump to conclusions, no I am not one of the two people referenced. No I will not give details or names. And no I am not going to go into my story. This ain't a pissing contest. Life happens. Accept it, deal with it, move on.
 
Valan, I know I need help, or counseling or medication. I also know there's people much worse off than me. I just can't grasp why someone would involve another person in some kindof bad prank when they're going through a tough time IRL, let alone yell at them for being gloomy despite stuff happening IRL. And no, I didn't make this thread in search for sympathy, I'm letting everyone know I'm going through a hard time IRL so if I'm a little bit more of a bitch than normal, that'd be why (though I'm not saying the sympathy isn't welcome...it's just not why I made the thread).

And about my "snide remark"...they involved me in a prank I didn't like, I simply took off my LP. I said nothing. I told the leader I need a break, and dropped the pearl so I couldn't come back until I was sure I was ready, and I got berated for it. I was compeltely civil about it, and she dragged it into the LS (not me), and suddenly at least half the LS is on me for "dragging drama into the LS once again"...even though I obviously wasn't the one to drag it into the LS --;

I really can't grasp how it's my fault, I didn't even want the LS to know I wasn't gonna be in for a while, I needed a break and I thought they'd want a break from me as well, but instead I get branded as some kindof misery icon to the LS...

If you want to discuss it, please use private messages. I'm not in the mood to really publically discuss it anymore, since the whole "mass friendship defense" thing is getting a bit old..
 
Valandil said:
Mishaela said:
And, to two special people....thanks for involving me in that crappy prank and giving me a long "you're too negative" speech for not finding it funny. I'm sure if you lost a cat you've had you're whole life, two grandparents, a great-grandparent, have a best friend diagnosed with stage 3 cancer, and another grandparent diagnosed with stage two cancer, AND your dad's probably gonna die within the week, all happening within about half a year, you'd be a f-!king walking bucket of sunshine and rainbows 24/7 despite the most inappropriate of jokes, right? I may not be the most bubbly person in the world, but again, way to go on that one-hour speech about how I have no right to be in a bad mood and even having the guts to say I don't have any reason to be upset. Have you not experienced death, or do you just not care about your family?
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A) Go get some therapy

B) You're not the only person in the world who has experienced tragedy in a short period of time.

C) You're not a victim.

D) It's these back-handed comments meant to make others out to be some kind of evil people while you yourself are some helpless, defenseless person who did absolutely nothing to provoke certain situations that really irritate me, especially when they are directed at my friends. If you wanna blame your piss-poor attitude and selfish nature on the things that are going on in your life rencently, that's your business. But don't expect everyone to just throw up their hands and give you a pity party. You want sympathy, I can understand that and it is justified, but you need to realize you're not the only and you need to be a little more respectful.

I know I sound like a cold-hearted son of a bitch, but I don't like people throwing out these one-sided snide remarks at my friends. Especially when they are only half-truths and full of a lot of misrepresented information. You're like one of the Four Horseman of the Apocalypse, but instead of Hell or Death following behind you it's Drama. Regardless of what you or others may think, I do wish you the best. You've got a lot to deal with right now and I know what it's like to go through stuff like that. Seriously though get yourself some help, you need it.

And for those who want to jump to conclusions, no I am not one of the two people referenced. No I will not give details or names. And no I am not going to go into my story. This ain't a pissing contest. Life happens. Accept it, deal with it, move on.
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The opener to this forum tells you that if you don't care about someone else's life, don't enter it. I suggest you crawl back under the rock you came out from. Just because other people have bad experiences in life, doesn't make this less significant or less painful to the people involved.
 
What Mirewen said. Something that might not seem such a big deal to you (but Ish's life sounds tough...) might be the world of trouble to that person. Next time.. just keep it to yourself. Especially with the way Ish seems at the moment.
 
Dad came home last night ^^ his kidneys were strained from dehydration, probably due to all the salt int he beer he drinks....his hearing came back (mom says he temporaily lost it from hitting his head on the headboard in his sleep or something? I've never heard of anything like that happening before though..)
So, he seems to be doing good now =D
Though I can't say I know what they're doing about his liver.. ><
 
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