Drunk driving is fuckin stupid

Chasym

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Chasym Toloren
So within the past two hours some night changing shit went down.
My brother called me asking if him and a few friends could come by and use my bar area and play some beer pong for awhile.
I said sure, i sat down there played one game and do what i always do, fade back, stop drinking and keep an eye on everyone.
Well i guess my bro and his friend taylor left with my ex wife to get something to eat.
I heard he was losing control of the car often once they got back.
So he decides "hey im going to get more beer"
and i say "no your not, its 3 am, your trashed and theres no where to get beer"
so he says "ill go to ann arbor michigan" (quite a drive from toledo ohio) and i say "no you wont cause by time you get back, we will be ending this and your too drunk to drive"
so he says "fine, ill be back gonna smoke a cigarette".

The following events put me into over drive mode where i was freaking out but had to remain calm. Not easy to do...but im glad i pulled it off.
We hear a car peel out and i go...wtf was that? did they leave anyway?
and moments/ a second later it was followed by a loud SMASH! to which i thought someone hit my vehicled right outside cause it was so loud and close.
My ex comes running in crying "Chris and taylor were just in an accident"
i rush outside since i was already on my way to check.
And the atmosphere completely changed.
In the distance i see smoke just a block away around the corner,
The loud blaring of a car horn in continous roar and all i could picture was Taylor passed out at the steering wheel hurt bad.
So we all start running to check on them.
I turn and yell to my ex "Go back to the house, you cant leave the kids there sleeping alone!"
so she does...but collapses as she turns around because she was supposed to be in the car too but at the last minute opted to stay. My friend helped her get home.

I turn the corner and see a jeep with smoke and fluids pouring out and i only see Taylor get out of the car and he starts yelling into the car "CHRIS?!...CHRIS?! ARE YOU OKAY? CHRIS!!!"
and i panic...i feared the worst that my brother was dead. i run to the passenger side to be relieved to see him climbing out of the car seemingly un injured.
He lifts his shirt and checks his chest constantly, and starts holding his head. I snapshot images of the scene in my mind as i quickly scan around to see what happened.
I notice the passenge seat is smashed flat against the dash board and the airbag was already completely flat.
I look up to see what they hit but am confused because there was nothing in front of them except a telephone pole that looked unscathed and the car was sitting at least 10 feet away from it...so in my logic they hit it so hard they bounced 10 feet back.
we tell everyone to get out of there or they would be blamed and accused of being in the car too, we all run back to my house.
I rush to get my parents and they come running.
my neighbor has the nerve say say "would you guys shut the fuck up people are trying to sleep" my mom cussed her out as she ran by.

My brother comes to my house seemingly ok, but he was more worried about everyone else and asking if taylor was ok.
Then these two twin girls start talking shit to my parents because my parents were upset at my brother...then it happens.
my brother softly says "i need to go to the hospital"
and passes out on my lawn, and does not respond to anyone at all and his breathing falls shallow.
My mom is trying to check him but these girls start trying to attack my mom yelling stuff like "you dont care about him, your out of your fucking mind" and all kinds of shit. Then they get in my moms face and my dad pushes one of them back...they then try to fight my mom. Im calmly telling them to calm down and just leave, but they refuse.

One girl calls for an ambulance and is giving the dispatches the wrong directions, shes telling them we are on a street that is 20 minutes away from where we really were and my mom tells her THATS NOT THE NAME OF THE STREET, and the girl yells SHUT UP BITCH and repeats the wrong street address, so i yell THATS NOT THE RIGHT STREET and she tells me to shut up and repeats the wrong adress, so my mom tries to yank the girl holding my brother off the ground so she could check on my brother.
the girl on the phone tackles my mom, My mom tackles her back and the girl punches my mom in the face, pins her and begins choking her in a headlock, I jump on the ground and yell "GET THE FUCK OFF MY MOM" and with all my strength pull her arms apart. She was still holding the phone and i yell into the phone MY ADDRESS IS -------insert adress here----" and i repeat it twice, THIS IS THE CORRECT AD....and the girl closes the phone on purpose so i couldnt tell them.
This is when my father walked over, Picked her up by her left leg and arm and THREW her acrossed the yard hard as hell onto the side walk like a rag doll.
(my dad is the size of a pro wrestler)
These girls swear up and down my mom hit them first.
The cops come and are checking out my brother and the girls wont shut the fuck up and are bickering while they are trying to get info to make sure my bro was ok.

After some tests finally my brother comes to and answers a few questions before they put him in the ambulance, Then these girls get all apologetic till the cop asks if my parents want to press charges then they get all ghetto again and say my parents started it. The cops made them leave when my mom said she didnt wanna press charges.
These girls were the most obnoxious disrespectful fuckin hood rats i have ever met. And told them they are not welcome at my house ever again. I have cuts on my arm from pulled her off my mom,
My moms arm is all scraped up from the tackle.

My brother is currently in the hospital getting xrays and catscans.
My mom is with him.

Taylor, is in jail being held fully responsable (they tried to lie to the cops and say someone stole the car and wrecked it, until they heard my brother was hurt then he fessed up)
my mom will be forcing my brother to sue for hospital bills since he has no insurance and they say he should be fine and be sent home this morning some time. my ex's knee is completely busted up from collapsing, and she is taking this like its her fault for letting them go and not telling me they were going to leave since being how i am i would have never let them leave in that state.
but how it all unfolded felt like some horrible movie, The sounds, the smell in the air, the feeling of panic and watching everyone running to the scene, and turning the corner to see the wreck and hearing all the yelling over the blaring of the horn. Scared the shit out of me,
And yet i was the only one who stayed calm and helped everyone, and tried to get everything to calm down.
Even when the girl kept repeatedly saying my brother wasnt breathing i stayed calm and just checked.
All this comes after this past weekend being the worst weekend of my life, having my heart broken, and then becoming seperated from my wife, and now this.
And im supposed to have a big party that was planned months ago next weekend.
There are gonna be some strict rules in place and i will have sole control over every car key there.
But this was some fucked up stuff i just needed to get off my chest.
 
so, where did the twins come from?

By the way you wrote the story, it seem like it was just 2 random twin strangers walking up to the scene starting shit. But towards the end you say they're not welcome, so I assume you knew them?
 
They were my brothers friends, they were at my house playing beer pong and were pretty drunk.
Just got a call, my brothers xrays and cat scans came back fine, hes just cut and bruised and will be very sore so they gave him some pain relievers and sent him home.
Taylor will have his insurance charged with my brothers hospital bills through the police report.
 
People like that are why I never had the opportunity to meet my grandmother.

Why were these brats giving the wrong address and attacking your mother if they were your brothers friends?
 
People like that are why I never had the opportunity to meet my grandmother.

Why were these brats giving the wrong address and attacking your mother if they were your brothers friends?

cause they were ghetto drunken idiots
 
Your brother needs new friends. Good thing your dad was there.
 
yeah my dad looked like he wanted to slug them a couple times, but probly for the same reason i didnt he backed off, i didnt wanna hit a girl (yeah yeah i know i know, but if they did anything that absolutley needed them to be put down...i woulda had to)
He has some solid friends, but he also has some idiots.
 
God what with losing your house and shit like this happening every month or two.... I really feel for ya.

well since ive been working the house and such has been stable, its been good here for quite some time. Just this past week ive had my heart broke, broke down and literally lost it at my friends, got trashed in the process and dont remember a thing thank god, and im seperated from my wife. Tho being seperated actually takes away alot of my problems so im complaining there, just been a rough week after a good long run without any bad stuff.
but its all clearing up now already and im preparing a huge party next weekend for halloween themed on the 80's, and this incident has only helped me to put in place stricter rules for drinking at my house.
 
One girl calls for an ambulance and is giving the dispatches the wrong directions, shes telling them we are on a street that is 20 minutes away from where we really were and my mom tells her THATS NOT THE NAME OF THE STREET, and the girl yells SHUT UP BITCH and repeats the wrong street address, so i yell THATS NOT THE RIGHT STREET and she tells me to shut up and repeats the wrong adress, so my mom tries to yank the girl holding my brother off the ground so she could check on my brother.
the girl on the phone tackles my mom, My mom tackles her back and the girl punches my mom in the face, pins her and begins choking her in a headlock, I jump on the ground and yell "GET THE FUCK OFF MY MOM" and with all my strength pull her arms apart. She was still holding the phone and i yell into the phone MY ADDRESS IS -------insert adress here----" and i repeat it twice, THIS IS THE CORRECT AD....and the girl closes the phone on purpose so i couldnt tell them.
This is when my father walked over, Picked her up by her left leg and arm and THREW her acrossed the yard hard as hell onto the side walk like a rag doll.
(my dad is the size of a pro wrestler)
These girls swear up and down my mom hit them first.
The cops come and are checking out my brother and the girls wont shut the fuck up and are bickering while they are trying to get info to make sure my bro was ok.

These people are called 'crack heads' please use whatever means necessary to inconvenience them and injure them whenever possible.

I honestly hope your friend Taylor gets a nice long jail sentence and never sees a drivers license again (also did I read correctly and hear he lied to a cop? and made a false police report?). The fact 1st time DUIs get basically a slap on the wrists in nearly every state is one of the reasons the US has one of the highest road death rates in the world.
 
These people are called 'crack heads' please use whatever means necessary to inconvenience them and injure them whenever possible.

I honestly hope your friend Taylor gets a nice long jail sentence and never sees a drivers license again (also did I read correctly and hear he lied to a cop? and made a false police report?). The fact 1st time DUIs get basically a slap on the wrists in nearly every state is one of the reasons the US has one of the highest road death rates in the world.

taylor was out by noon that day, and is being charged with 4 things, DUI, Failure to control, and i cant remember the other 2.
 
These people are called 'crack heads' please use whatever means necessary to inconvenience them and injure them whenever possible.

I honestly hope your friend Taylor gets a nice long jail sentence and never sees a drivers license again (also did I read correctly and hear he lied to a cop? and made a false police report?). The fact 1st time DUIs get basically a slap on the wrists in nearly every state is one of the reasons the US has one of the highest road death rates in the world.

Az gets you jailtime, $5000 + in fines, and the breathelyzer on your ignition.

Oh, and that last part applies AFTER you get your suspended license back.

Not to mention AFTER Community service, and AA meetings.

All required.
 
i woulda knocked those 'hood rats' out ... i dont care if there girls i woulda knocked there fuckin lights out they were causing more problems then helping and knocking them unconcious woulda helped more
 
Wow man, I feel for you there. I used to have to deal with drunken idiot friends what would do stupid shit. Thankfully nobody was seriously injured. About the hood rats: I am a firm believer in "Never hit a woman" but the fact that they acted like deranged psychopaths erases the fact that they are women and earns them a bitch slap across the face. I mean hell, they give wrong directions, they attack you, your mom, and your dad, and still try to play it off like its not their fault.........I woulda beat them senseless with a baseball bat.
 
oh it was certainly their fault, but i didnt know them or their age till after the cops asked. My mom didnt hit back for that reason too, didnt know how old they were. turned out they were 22 lookin like they were 17
 
Hmm well, whats done is done, hopefully your brother learns to choose his friends wisely and not hang out with ghetto idiots and hood rats. Best of luck to you and your family man!
 
I read most of this thread. I really hope everything turns out alright with you Chasym. I can tell you were still intoxicated when you wrote this out or at very least still in a state of panic. Those two bitches need to be kicked in the stomach about 5 times hard. >< I hope they never procreate. I really hope your bro is alright man. Let us know what happens.
 
shit buddy, that's some crazy shit.
 
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