Family does not come first any more

[Arctyrael]

i talked to my dad today and he told me he wants to go back home.... and hes sorry :\

I understand emotions are high right now, but you really should actively avoid allowing yourself to be swept up into the situation. Reeve is correct; this is the only order the differences should be resolved:

• Your mom and your dad
• You and your mom
• You and your dad

If you put yourself in the middle or think that one is worse than the other, you're going to make the whole situation harder on everyone, including yourself.

I suggest going to NY. Its harsh, I realize. In tough situations though, you have to rise to the occasion. Use the reality check, make amends but realize you're the captain of your own ship now ... so to speak.

 

[Novolo]

I cant go to new york for another 2 and half years thats how much i got left on my enlistment :| but for visiting my family i was plannin on seein my fiance , and my parents are reslovin this faster than i thought so im in good moods