I get invited to a party with a PL in Kazham and this is what befalls me:
Party setup~ RDM(me), NIN(Felore), BLM, SMN, SAM, WAR. RDM75(Koening)
(This happened on my main character Shaolina)
About 3 mandy's into the party the BLM goes down due to a nasty bout of chain-nuking. Naturally the PL gets upset that neither me nor the SMN managed to get in any cure's before he died. I apologized to the PL for not watching the HP bars. (This is where I admit that everyone gets lazy with a PL on the back line, but I'm not offering that as an excuse for dropping the ball. I'm merely stating that this sometimes happens) The party goes on, at this point nothing more is said about the matter. We decide to change camps from the zone into Kazham to the narrow path just before heading down the hole on the way to Yhoator Jungle. It was suggested that we start on Gobs.
Me>> Bomb damage is horrible
Felore>> Did you notice the PL?
Me>> Did you notice the death?
Felore>> lol
Felore>> i love how when there is a PL ppl get lazy and blame the PL for deaths in the party
Me>> I never blamed anyone for anything
Koening>> You should really learn how to play RDM before you start blaming other people for party deaths
Me>> I didn't blame you for anything, I just said bomb damage was horrible
Koening>> he died from a mandy, not a goblin...
(in the /tell chat mode when I say "...there it goes again...." Felore is asking the SAM to pull even though none of the mages have any MP, just because we have a PL. Now, to me, this in line with someone not giving a shit just because we have a PL. It's already been demonstrated 3 mandy's into the fight that having a PL curing everyone with no help from the mages is a bad idea.)
(You'll notice that Koening tells me I don't have to melee. No, I don't usually melee in a party with a RDM, before some of you get fired up about RDM's wanting to melee with the DD's. I was melee'ing as well as nuking, curing and enfeebling at this point to help drop the mobs faster for longer chains and thus, better xp. Also at this point I'm spamming cures on everyone because of Goblin bomb damage which the PL can't keep up with. Now the mages are out of MP, again, and Felore is wanting the puller to keep it coming because we have a PL, thus the vicious cycle continues)
Now, what is quite obvious to me, and if you didn't get the idea from the /tell's, is the fact that I was A. Admitting that we should have been watching the health bars, thereby taking responsibility for the death of the BLM. B. Trying to explain that I for one realized we weren't invincible just because we had a PL as well as correct a miscommunication between myself, Felore and Koening.
So as we are entering Kazham to get choco's to Yhoator, I was summarily kicked from the party because it was apparent I was talking shit and blaming the PL for the death of the BLM.
Pardon my French, but...... WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE??? Why do so many players in this game assume you're trying to outwit, outtalk, and outplay them? For christ's sake, you can't even explain yourself these days without some douche bag taking offense because he thinks you're being a smart ass! I can honestly say that this is the only party I've ever been kicked from in the years I've been playing and it was for no damn good reason. I was being polite, I was being courteous, but at the end I was just reallying pissed off at the way I was treated. Fuck you Felore and especially Fuck you Koening. You try to be polite in this game that supposed to be fun and this is what you get. Stupid Fucking Douchebag Motherfuckers treating you like the deuce your dog just dropped on the lawn.
Party setup~ RDM(me), NIN(Felore), BLM, SMN, SAM, WAR. RDM75(Koening)
(This happened on my main character Shaolina)
About 3 mandy's into the party the BLM goes down due to a nasty bout of chain-nuking. Naturally the PL gets upset that neither me nor the SMN managed to get in any cure's before he died. I apologized to the PL for not watching the HP bars. (This is where I admit that everyone gets lazy with a PL on the back line, but I'm not offering that as an excuse for dropping the ball. I'm merely stating that this sometimes happens) The party goes on, at this point nothing more is said about the matter. We decide to change camps from the zone into Kazham to the narrow path just before heading down the hole on the way to Yhoator Jungle. It was suggested that we start on Gobs.
Me>> Bomb damage is horrible
Felore>> Did you notice the PL?
Me>> Did you notice the death?
Felore>> lol
Felore>> i love how when there is a PL ppl get lazy and blame the PL for deaths in the party
Me>> I never blamed anyone for anything
Koening>> You should really learn how to play RDM before you start blaming other people for party deaths
Me>> I didn't blame you for anything, I just said bomb damage was horrible
Koening>> he died from a mandy, not a goblin...
(in the /tell chat mode when I say "...there it goes again...." Felore is asking the SAM to pull even though none of the mages have any MP, just because we have a PL. Now, to me, this in line with someone not giving a shit just because we have a PL. It's already been demonstrated 3 mandy's into the fight that having a PL curing everyone with no help from the mages is a bad idea.)
(You'll notice that Koening tells me I don't have to melee. No, I don't usually melee in a party with a RDM, before some of you get fired up about RDM's wanting to melee with the DD's. I was melee'ing as well as nuking, curing and enfeebling at this point to help drop the mobs faster for longer chains and thus, better xp. Also at this point I'm spamming cures on everyone because of Goblin bomb damage which the PL can't keep up with. Now the mages are out of MP, again, and Felore is wanting the puller to keep it coming because we have a PL, thus the vicious cycle continues)
Now, what is quite obvious to me, and if you didn't get the idea from the /tell's, is the fact that I was A. Admitting that we should have been watching the health bars, thereby taking responsibility for the death of the BLM. B. Trying to explain that I for one realized we weren't invincible just because we had a PL as well as correct a miscommunication between myself, Felore and Koening.
So as we are entering Kazham to get choco's to Yhoator, I was summarily kicked from the party because it was apparent I was talking shit and blaming the PL for the death of the BLM.
Pardon my French, but...... WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE??? Why do so many players in this game assume you're trying to outwit, outtalk, and outplay them? For christ's sake, you can't even explain yourself these days without some douche bag taking offense because he thinks you're being a smart ass! I can honestly say that this is the only party I've ever been kicked from in the years I've been playing and it was for no damn good reason. I was being polite, I was being courteous, but at the end I was just reallying pissed off at the way I was treated. Fuck you Felore and especially Fuck you Koening. You try to be polite in this game that supposed to be fun and this is what you get. Stupid Fucking Douchebag Motherfuckers treating you like the deuce your dog just dropped on the lawn.