Flaming FFXI & WOW

[Romper]

Damnit



you two get a fucking room already.

He came in it and no thanks I'm not into guys.

 

[Makelith]

So sex still pays the bills? Sex fixes the fact that this guy was putting games over everything else? Yeah sure he stops playing for an hour, but what is he going to do right after he's done? Jesus sex is only a temporary fix to the problems, and it really shows how mature you are Make that you think it would be the be all end all fix to real under lying problems.

You are still failing to realize that the guy, in this equation, only has to do the banging. Everyone has different values assigned to different things. Some people are completely in love with Burger King over where i think its even worse than McDonalds. The same can be said with sex. Some people choose to never have sex, while some people are addicted to it.

I don't see how you can even talk about maturity anyways Romper, trying to be the new hypocrite on the site or something?

 

[Raesylil]

They forgot to mention that maybe she was bad at sex or the dude was gay. Because just like any other specifies, humans, men in general, are fuck machines. So if she was good, they would have atleast spent an hr banging everyday.

You cannot be serious...There is no need to bring in their sex life into the article. What relavence is there?
Even if she was good in bed, sometimes men can be just that stupid to choose a game over their significant other or family. I honestly doubt that he would actually hide the fact that he's gay to a childhood friend that he's known for a long time and married her as his wife.

Although, their sex life perhaps did diminish because of the game, which leads to unsatisfaction. If he is always playing the game and not paying attention to her and her needs, then yeah I suppose it could happen.

I don't think that anyone was implying that the guy was perfectly right to have neglected his wife over a MMO nor that the girl was wrong for leaving, rather I think the reaction was more towards the current trend of conveniently blaming video games and MMOs for everything that goes wrong in life... (not that I am saying it's fine to be addicted to video games or MMOs)

The only think I have a gripe about that article is that it was only one-sided and only conveyed one message: MMOs are evil.
What's even worse is that the wife did not say she did anything to really save the marriage.
30 minutes watching TV together is hardly what I would call a step to saving marriage.
That's all that she did mention really.
While she would want to watch TV together, he wanted to play WoW. This fact bothered her and yet she just kept on letting him slip with his responsibilities.
In the end, she walked out on him.
Where was the fight to keep it together? Did she put up a fight for it?

I saw nothing of the sort. Yet she blames the game for ruining their marriage.
If she did nothing to work on saving their marriage then she should not blame it entirely on MMOs.
Yes, she is a real person. Yes, she should have been more important to the husband than a game. He made wrong decisions. They should have worked together to make some things better for them but they didn't. If she loved him, she would not have intervened.

 

[Raesylil]

The only thing I have a gripe about that article is that it was only one-sided and only conveyed one message: MMOs are evil.
What's even worse is that the wife did not say she did anything to really save the marriage.
30 minutes watching TV together is hardly what I would call a step to saving marriage.
That's all that she did mention really.


Yes, she is a real person. Yes, she should have been more important to the husband than a game. He made wrong decisions. They should have worked together to make some things better for them but they didn't. If she loved him, she would have intervened.

Fixed it due to some grammatical errors >.>

 

[Morwen]

I really don't know what else to say as I only read the last few posts.

Then do yourself a favor and save what you think you have to say before reading the first post at the very least. It keeps me from shaking my head at your foolishness.

The only think I have a gripe about that article is that it was only one-sided and only conveyed one message: MMOs are evil.
What's even worse is that the wife did not say she did anything to really save the marriage.
30 minutes watching TV together is hardly what I would call a step to saving marriage.
That's all that she did mention really.
While she would want to watch TV together, he wanted to play WoW. This fact bothered her and yet she just kept on letting him slip with his responsibilities.
In the end, she walked out on him.
Where was the fight to keep it together? Did she put up a fight for it?

I saw nothing of the sort. Yet she blames the game for ruining their marriage.
If she did nothing to work on saving their marriage then she should not blame it entirely on MMOs.
Yes, she is a real person. Yes, she should have been more important to the husband than a game. He made wrong decisions. They should have worked together to make some things better for them but they didn't. If she loved him, she would not have intervened.

I agree pretty much with all of the above.

They're both completely at fault here, like many have stated before me. There is no reason to envelop yourself into a video game (or any other such hobby) as completely as this woman's husband did. That would hold true even if said partner actually included themselves in the hobby, I'm sure someone can dig up the WoW news article where two parents were arrested for neglecting their children for raids to go along with that. And for you gentlemen saying that she must have been 'bad in bed', sex doesn't solve everything. You can be bad in bed or phenominal and your boyfriend is still going to want to bump uglies. Damn near everyones seen the Paris Hilton video and she's a dead fish. People are still sticking it to her too.

People don't take the disclaimers seriously at the log-in screens. Sometimes, I think the companies like Blizzard and SE are hoping you don't take them seriously and play your ass off. What I'm tired of seeing are all the people blaming their, or their loved ones, natural laziness on a videogame they so happened to choose to pass their time with. Lady its not our fault your husbands a fucking lout or you're too much of a nag to get his attention the way you want it. Nor is it our fault that someones kid is morbidly obese sitting in momma's basement surrounded in Cheeto's bags she bought for him and Dr. Pepper cans with a musical number going going on under his bed by the entire cast of Joe's Apartment (cockroaches, people).

Suck it up and take responsibility for being a parent relying on video-games to babysit your kid so you can go to Pilates class or for you choosing a shitty husband/wife. Do it on your own time and stop alerting the media to the 'epidemic' of video games when its really just you and your family being idiots.

 

[Audino]

They're both completely at fault here, like many have stated before me. There is no reason to envelop yourself into a video game (or any other such hobby) as completely as this woman's husband did. That would hold true even if said partner actually included themselves in the hobby, I'm sure someone can dig up the WoW news article where two parents were arrested for neglecting their children for raids to go along with that. And for you gentlemen saying that she must have been 'bad in bed', sex doesn't solve everything. You can be bad in bed or phenominal and your boyfriend is still going to want to bump uglies. Damn near everyones seen the Paris Hilton video and she's a dead fish. People are still sticking it to her too.

People don't take the disclaimers seriously at the log-in screens. Sometimes, I think the companies like Blizzard and SE are hoping you don't take them seriously and play your ass off. What I'm tired of seeing are all the people blaming their, or their loved ones, natural laziness on a videogame they so happened to choose to pass their time with. Lady its not our fault your husbands a fucking lout or you're too much of a nag to get his attention the way you want it. Nor is it our fault that someones kid is morbidly obese sitting in momma's basement surrounded in Cheeto's bags she bought for him and Dr. Pepper cans with a musical number going going on under his bed by the entire cast of Joe's Apartment (cockroaches, people).

Suck it up and take responsibility for being a parent relying on video-games to babysit your kid so you can go to Pilates class or for you choosing a shitty husband/wife. Do it on your own time and stop alerting the media to the 'epidemic' of video games when its really just you and your family being idiots.

Well said. That deserves applause.

 

[Romper]

You are still failing to realize that the guy, in this equation, only has to do the banging. Everyone has different values assigned to different things. Some people are completely in love with Burger King over where i think its even worse than McDonalds. The same can be said with sex. Some people choose to never have sex, while some people are addicted to it.

I don't see how you can even talk about maturity anyways Romper, trying to be the new hypocrite on the site or something?

Well if you want to say that a good fucking will fix every problem in a relationship I'm going to point out to you that the female wont think that way even if she has a raging libido.

Sorry that I look past this as a fucking problem. You could be right that this guy just needed one good fucking to get his mind set back on track, but what are the chances of that happening?

Did you seriously just try to compare marital, to a further extent personality, problems to choices over which fast food restaurant is better?

 

[jyakotsu]

To bad he only quit FFXI and not QCDN too eh?

Hey you and romper should have done the same, and for the record im not gone yet. Try reading posts, instead of jacking people's osodes.

Yes i went there.

 

[Makelith]

Well if you want to say that a good fucking will fix every problem in a relationship I'm going to point out to you that the female wont think that way even if she has a raging libido.

If someone has a raging libido they probably will. Being a female has nothing to do with it. I also don't know why you keep assuming that i'm saying one good fuck will fix all their problems. Although, i will stand by the fact that a good one will solve a lot of them.

Sorry that I look past this as a fucking problem. You could be right that this guy just needed one good fucking to get his mind set back on track, but what are the chances of that happening?

Exactly. My girlfriend doesn't like it when i play video games instead of "QT with her", but she certainly knows how to get my attention away from any game i could play real quick.

Did you seriously just try to compare marital, to a further extent personality, problems to choices over which fast food restaurant is better?

No, that would have stupid to compare problems, comon now romper. I compared how people value things. Some people think Burger King is the end all to be all food, while i think its nasty crap. Some people will take sex, while some people choose to abstain from it for their entire lives.

 

[Aedin]

It's just a matter of having self control and personal limitations... Apparently people that treat the game so seriously like that shouldn't ever play a mmorpg.

 

[Morwen]

Some people will take sex, while some people choose to abstain from it for their entire lives.

It might just be me, but I think these people are the reason we have wars and psychopaths.

 

[Emperordragon]

Honestly, good for her. I hope she finds someone better.

In a few years, when the WoW servers shut down, and shes re-married, thats when it will sink in about what a horrible mistake hes made & he will die a lonely man.

I would leave my wife if she chose a game over me, and i would expect the same from her.

 

[jyakotsu]

Says the man who can only get a gf over a game on the internet.

because you obviously know me IRL. ^^.

You don't know a damn thing about me IRL.

 

[Makelith]

It might just be me, but I think these people are the reason we have wars and psychopaths.

And priests, but they haven't started a good ol' fashioned war in a few hundred years.

Doesn't make them any less crazy, though.

 

[Morwen]

And priests, but they haven't started a good ol' fashioned war in a few hundred years.

Doesn't make them any less crazy, though.

Well no, but in most cases I would call that a 'good' kind of crazy as they're more or less attempting to do good for others in the name of god.

 

[Myrrh]

And priests, but they haven't started a good ol' fashioned war in a few hundred years.

Doesn't make them any less crazy, though.

They've had little boys to keep them busy, that's why they haven't started shit lately.

 

[Morwen]

Double post: Sue me.

because you obviously know me IRL. ^^.

You don't know a damn thing about me IRL.

Nor do you know anything about him RL.

So, both of you go to your corners or someones getting a goddamn time-out.

 

[RaidrX]

Went where jyak? Down the road of bring up old shit? I mean, you do know that road pretty damn well.

I'll tell you this again chief, you don't know jack shit about what happened. I tried to tell you that in the PM (which apparently you can't waste your time with, and yet can come post exactly the same bull shit in the FB) and all you did was act high and mighty and keep saying QQ a bunch. You call romper out about "knowing so much about you in rl" and yet you sit there and run your mouth on something that A) you know nothing about and B) have nothing to do with at all.

As far as "readin posts"

After 410 days I officially decided enough was enough. Sometime next month I will be quitting the game. No I wont be coming back,

I don't see what I'm missing there? Sorry I didn't put an 'ing' at the end of quit in my post, but i don't see how it would make a difference, my point would be the same thing. Seriously gg buddy.

 

[Makelith]

You aren't allowed to speak until you start playing CoD with me again. Until then, you are dead to me raider.

What are people even talking about with Jya anymore? I'd like to just sit here and point out how stupid and childish everyone is being any chance they get, but i can't keep up with all the ways people manage to hold on to months of old grudges. They are all starting to run together.

 

[RaidrX]

Jyak rated me down on my "I'm Back" thread a few days ago because hes a douche bag, and rated me down about some shit he knows nothing about and happened like 6 months ago (it also wasn't the first time he had rated me down about that subject). So, I pm'd him about it to tell him that he knew nothing about it and that he shouldn't run his mouth. He just basically blew me off though and told me he wouldn't waste his time reading my pms. It however isn't a waste of his time to bring shit up over and over again on the flame board so I don't know how he justifies that one. Idk what the fuck him and romper are bitching at eachother about this time, but thats why I'm posting.

Also fuck man, when do you work again lol. I swear everytime you work i'm either working too and just don't feel like stoping in, or its like 5 days off so i forget by that time. The sad thing is its like a 5 min drive from my house if that, but i fucking hate those intersections over there and its in a bitch of a location to get to. PM me your schedule again and I'll stop in soon I promise.