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Well last night me and some friends went to a movie (Corpse Bride wasn't too bad) and well there was a girl I liked there I've liked her for a little bit and she likes me somewhat..

So I decided to ask her out..She said she wants a little bit of time to think about it so Im letting her but one of her friends talked to her and its looking like a no because apparently she likes another guy but i'm next on her list..

Is there anything I can do/say to perhaps get her to give me a chance instead of having me be the fallout guy?

Any useful advice appreciated~
 
well as far as people and there feelings come, just know your not out to control how people feel about you, and if she likes another she likes another guy, not much you can do about it. but no worries there are plenty of girls out there :D
 
Gowron said:
well as far as people and there feelings come, just know your not out to control how people feel about you, and if she likes another she likes another guy, not much you can do about it. but no worries there are plenty of girls out there :D
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agreed, and there is much to be said for having a little patience, some of us guys are real jerks and tend to show it pretty quick XD
 
I have had some long patience before and I normally get screwed over..lol
But its just a high school relationship not expecting to much from it but nice to have still up for some additional advice
 
Make the other dude look like an ass! Some bitch did that to me trying to steal my girlfriend, and it just about worked too. He knew my girlfriend hates it when I get violent with people, so he did everything he could to get me to hit him. I got pissed, and I was about to pound the fuck out of him when my friend grabbed be and stopped me. Had it not been for my friend, I would have lost my girlfriend.

What I'm trying to say is, be the bitch who steals the girl by making #1 look like an ass. Its dirty fighting, but it might just get you what you want.
 
meh >.> don't try to force her to go with you or trick her by making the other guy look bad. Seriously.. she'll prolly find out and become disgusted by such an action D:
 
Corrosion said:
Make the other dude look like an ass! Some bitch did that to me trying to steal my girlfriend, and it just about worked too. He knew my girlfriend hates it when I get violent with people, so he did everything he could to get me to hit him. I got pissed, and I was about to pound the fuck out of him when my friend grabbed be and stopped me. Had it not been for my friend, I would have lost my girlfriend.

What I'm trying to say is, be the bitch who steals the girl by making #1 look like an ass. Its dirty fighting, but it might just get you what you want.
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..i have to just say.. THIS IS HORRIBLE ADVICE lol..

this will only make YOU look like an ass.. and if she never finds out.. you should FEEL like an ass.. and if she DOES find out.. man.. you dont think she's gunna tell her friends? which in turn tell their friends.. who tell their friends.. who tell.. etc etc etc..

be nice, be yourself.. if she doesnt think your #1, without you having to change anything, then is she worth it?

Quote Nibble (me lol): You only get what you settle for..

this quote applies to everything in life.. jobs.. friends.. husband/wife.. anything and everything.. always remember that you CAN find something/someone better.. but you "settle" to be with the person your with.. or you "settle" to have the things you have..

this isnt a bad thing.. AIM for the stars and if you shoot the moon thats ok too..

~nib
 
I know just how you feel. i asked a girl out and i got the its not you its me line -.-, and i really liked her to but you know what there are always more fish in the sea. If she does go for this other guy just let her know your ok with it and hope they are happy(but try not to sound mean) and hope everything works out.

Here is a tip i learned aswell sometimes the friends lie(i found out the hard way). I asked a girl out and she needed time to think so later that day i asked her friend she said "no she hates you, your soo gonna get rejected". and i took it the hard way and she wanted to go out with me in the end but not after what i did(don't ask)

so my tip is just wait and see it may take time but patience(sp?) is a virtue.


I love that saying and it works for me now -.-.
 
I'm hoping the friend is lying but time will tell.
 
The best way to NOT get her is to pine over her. Move on, is her best friend hot?
 
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I recommend punching her in the arm and saying:
"Good luck champ."
Then wink as though you know some unforseen truth.

Works every time, they get so confused they give up and just jump who ever is closest. At least thats what the internet tells me...
 
women/girls/etc with lists of whose next up at bat scare me. :shock:

for some reason the pokemon theme just plays in the back of my head the more i think about your OP.
 
All in all, you gotta seal the deal by showing her the hhhhwang.
 
*is glad she's happily married and so done with the gf/bf thang*

All I have to say is good luck.

*shakes her noggin'*

*walks away with a nostalgic smile of times past*
 
Okay, about girls.. personal dont like em (not gay, have a gf) . but girls always finds ways to go and hurt you, so pretty much just don't be hurt when/if she says "no" or "can we still be friends"? But if ya want someone to like you.. i found that probly the best way is to be yourself cuz if ya want the relationship to go anywhere you'll have to be truthful.. anyways however lame it is, advice is always be yourself... oh an SAY NO TO DRUGS KIDS!! :oops:
 
emokid said:
Okay, about girls.. personal dont like em (not gay, have a gf) . but girls always finds ways to go and hurt you, so pretty much just don't be hurt when/if she says "no" or "can we still be friends"? But if ya want someone to like you.. i found that probly the best way is to be yourself cuz if ya want the relationship to go anywhere you'll have to be truthful.. anyways however lame it is, advice is always be yourself... oh an SAY NO TO DRUGS KIDS!! :oops:
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wtf?

i guess it all goes back to.. understanding men is like tryign to understand why a dog humps your leg.. so.. if the girl your interested in says "no" then she probably doesnt want that dog humpin on her leg all night.. or trying to..

~nib
 
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oh and..

life is like a box of chocolates.. you take the best ones first and leave the others to someone else..

~nib
 
Nibble said:
Corrosion said:
Make the other dude look like an ass! Some bitch did that to me trying to steal my girlfriend, and it just about worked too. He knew my girlfriend hates it when I get violent with people, so he did everything he could to get me to hit him. I got pissed, and I was about to pound the fuck out of him when my friend grabbed be and stopped me. Had it not been for my friend, I would have lost my girlfriend.

What I'm trying to say is, be the bitch who steals the girl by making #1 look like an ass. Its dirty fighting, but it might just get you what you want.
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..i have to just say.. THIS IS HORRIBLE ADVICE lol..
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You say its horrible advice, but it would have worked perfectly against me if not for my friend. Its cruel and very low, but it can get the job done. Most guys 'will do anything to be with (insert girl's name here)', and this is one way to do it. I didn't invent this little trick, I'm just saying, it works.
 
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