Wow. I need to stop reading the flameboard before all the fun in this game is sucked right out of me lol.
I just wanted to add my 2 cents that in all of the time I leveled past lvl 50 or so, it was rare to have anyone "Powerlevel" my party. Normally a blm friend of mine would want to hang out with me because they were bored and wanted to come by to chat for an hour or so with me and my group (which usually had a couple friends in it) and while they were there, they tossed a couple cures. This probably happened twice in my time leveling from 50 to 75 and was never longer than probably an hour.
I never once "depended" on their curing or "needed" them to be there curing, sure, not having to cure one person that got that cure III or IV or whatever it was saved me a few mp points, but wow, if I had to depend on a powerleveler for all of my parties 50+ I'd probably still be...well, lvl 50.
I guess what's so surprising is that people are so jumpy on this subject that it makes me wonder where all of those people with higher lvl whm or blm or whatever friends that can follow them around all the time for every party they have 50+ are/were. I don't think I ever partied with one person 50+ that had someone following them around with the express purpose of powerleveling them to 75 or even one person 50+ that had ever powerleveled us.
My shock just comes because it has never occurred to me that my tossing someone that I see is low on hp randomly out there to keep them from dying is so unwanted and hated and is not the "help" that I see it as, but actually crutching them in their job and making them bad at it.
I'm glad that FFXI doesn't have a board of people on it that you have to go to for permission to go hang out with a friend and cure him whenever you see him getting low on hp, not that I do it often, but wow, I thought this was a free world lol.
I will admit, I've gone to the dunes and sat with a good friend and cured them and their party to help them out /gasp /cries of shock. Did I do it for this person until they were 75 so that they were gimped at their job or dependant upon me? No, not at all. I've probably done it once for every really really good friend of mine, probably for like an hour, and it was because I was bored and wanted someone to go have fun with and hang out with, and I wanted to help them out. Every time I've done it, I've stayed for a little while, helped them out a little, everyone was happy, and then I waved goodbye and went on my merry way. Should I be burned at the stake for that? I doubt it. It's probably been a good 6 months since I've done this, and I'd do it again anyday that I ever felt like doing it.
The irritating thing, is when people start asking you to PL them, or shouting for a PL. I don't see it as something that should be a necessity of your party, but something that a friend will do if they're bored and feel like hanging out with you. I've had plenty of people ask me for a powerlevel that I've turned down, or harrass me in ls, that I've turned down, because I don't do it on request, I do it when I feel like hanging out with someone, and helping someone for a little bit. Completely recreational, and it stops as soon as I have something better to do with my time ^^.
In conclusion, I will continue to go hang out with a friend and toss them and their party cures anytime I feel like it, although now I may ask the party if it offends anyone in it and if it does, I won't offend them by curing them, I'll just concentrate on my friend and the people that are happy about it. I'm sorry if that offends anyone, but I am free to do whatever I like in this game (following my high moral code and POL user agreement), and if you don't like it, you're completely entitled to that as well

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My point is, that I am just sitting here giggling, because I wonder when I'm going to see a post on here about someone being angry their friend quit and sent them millions of gil. Basically the same concept to me because that isn't something you "earn" either and should be with this argument under the category of "Pointless things to be upset about."
When are we all going to just sit back and /points to the "Live and Let Live." on her signet.../shakes head.