how much?

[aeronine]

how much must a man endure emotional pain? how much heartace must a man go through to relize he has hurt other people? can he relize this and it be to late? is there any chance karma has seen he has paid enough for his past? is there only just that one person for each of us? how long will it take for the heart to heal? how does a man know when he has met that one person? can a man be so in love with the thought of being in love he thinks its the real thing? i think not. this man has relized love is all there is needed to make him happy. this mans heart is in constant pain. will it heal? only time will tell. forever my heart will belong to her. dreams of things that never had a chance to be, dreams of what was. forever in time will i remember the moment i fell in love. for those that have loved and been loved. love like you have never loved befor. never let it go if you both feel the same way, dont walk away cause you may never get a second chance at her. dont live in the now love in the now. do whatever it takes to let her know how you feel. and if she dont feel it in return then walk away knowing that atleast once in your life you have loved someone for who they are and all the great things they are. dont ever be affraid of love, its the greatest thing you can experince. always love with all your soul. i have suffered heartache. even though love was the beging of it. it was still a great feeling while it was there. there is more i want to say but im to overwhelmed right now. till later.
~tragicaly heartbroken~

 

[Rones]

can a man be so in love with the thought of being in love he thinks its the real thing?

Yeah, its called lust. Just ignore it.

You didn't get the girl you felt was best for you...it happens to everyone. No need to take it so hard. Go listen to Kottonmouth Kings- Positive vibes. Guranteed to cheer you up. Consider looking into stoicism. Does a fine job of removing emotional pains of life.

 

[Parademonium]

Oh Rones i want your brain is full of candy and thoughts behond the normal man i miss hanging with ya /huggles. Aeronine life happens man, we can't always get what we want i experenced the same thing many times untill i relized the best thing you can do is wait for it to come to you. Its easy to confuse lust for love but don't take so bad man. If you love it let it go, if it comes back its ment to be. And yes letting go is the hardest part but you have to...

 

[Princemercury]

Letting go isn't that hard.

It's easy to drop someone like a bag of dirt, it's just the feelings you have that are hard to let go.

Being heartbroken is painful. But it usually happens to your first "true" love. You're right. Only time will tell you how to move on. If you really love her, and she doesn't love you... Let it go. Everyone has the strength inside to release emotional feelings they do not want to lose. Only you have the power within yourself to make that happen, no matter how hard it might seem to be.

But you have to pause and ask yourself.

Why is your heart broken?

Is it something you did wrong?

Did you try to fix it?

True love relationships end with the most heartbreak, but usually on both sides. With an unequal balance of one heart being crushed more than the other.

The heart that's broken more, is the one at fault for falling into such a relationship without so much certainty to the other.

The heart that is broken less, was never trully in love.

 

[Linhjah]

Yeah, it sucks and it hurts that you didn't get the girl. Everyone has been there... /comfort

What are you doing about the situation now? If she has made it clear that she isn't intrested, I hope you are not still trying to be with her, cause that will really only make things worse, for both of you.

 

[aeronine]

i made it clear as to how i feel. and wished her the best and walked away. i left her to be who she desires to be with hoping she will will find happieness with him. as hard as it is to just walk away i did. now all i can do is stay away from game till enough time has passed that it dont hurt anymore. how long that will be im not sure.

 

[Rones]

Except you aren't staying away. You continue to make your pain known in places she will see and thus are hurting her more...knowingly or unknowingly. The more you beat yourself up over this, the more you are hurting her. That is why we say let it go, not only for you, but for her. Everyone involved will be better if you just accept it and go on with life. Our paths of life merge, cross, and seperate often. Do not cling to the past when the paths split and go their own ways, you must follow your own path.

 

[aeronine]

danm dude i already quit game and no need to be an ass to me. i was just displaying my pain seeing i have no other outlets, if you want to be cold and heartless dont post on here. as it says if you dont care about rl then dont look here. besides its hard to just let go over night. and if im causeing ppl to much greif then ill just go away completly. but thanks to everyone who has commented with positive things for me.

 

[Rones]

I never said to quit game. I don't see why you did that either. I also didn't tell you to stop posting. All I'm saying is find a different outlet for your pain. Namely one that won't hurt her too. If a girl turns you down in rl, do you go to her friends and coworkers to cry on their shoulders? If anyone is being cold and heartless, it is you for continuing to hurt her just because you are hurt. Keep playing the game, keep posting, but just drop the subject and put your focus on something else. Obsessing over a girl after the fact is not going to improve the situation.

 

[Linhjah]

danm dude i already quit game and no need to be an ass to me. i was just displaying my pain seeing i have no other outlets, if you want to be cold and heartless dont post on here. as it says if you dont care about rl then dont look here. besides its hard to just let go over night. and if im causeing ppl to much greif then ill just go away completly. but thanks to everyone who has commented with positive things for me.

While he may have not been terribly tactful, I don't think Rones was trying to be cruel. I'm sorry if you have no other outlet.

I gather you know this girl from FFXI (specifically Quetzy). If that is the case, Rones is right, and she will see this. I think that walking away was the right thing to do. Posting here, though, isn't walking away because she will see it.

I'm sure you have plenty of people in game who are more than willing to help you through this. Posting to the general public when she can see it will only drive a wedge between you two and make her resent you, which will make you resent her, etc.

PM or /tell is probably the best way to handle it. If you need a shoulder to cry on, feel free to hit me up...

 

[Strid]

Wow, that is a lot of questions to answer but here goes.

how much must a man endure emotional pain?

I will assume you mean, "How much emotional pain must a man endure?". My answer is, as much as you let it get to you. Love and pain can be terminated at will.

how much heartace must a man go through to relize he has hurt other people?

If you can't see you're hurting someone then and there exersize muscle number one on people skills. Hint: Women suck at hiding their emotions in their eyes. Learn to love eyes.

can he relize this and it be to late?

See above answer and you shouldn't ever be faced with this question.

is there any chance karma has seen he has paid enough for his past?

"Karma" is made up. Much like "fate". It's a word created to help people feel more secure with themselves and the things they do. It's like a reward system only...it doesn't exist. What is sad is some people only do things because of this...which is why it was set in place. A thing to help pricks be nice to people.

is there only just that one person for each of us?

No, that's silly. There may be one personality for you but many will posses it. Can you find one should be the question.

how long will it take for the heart to heal?

That's up to you. As long as you are doing stuff like this post it wont.

how does a man know when he has met that one person?

You wont have to ask this question.

can a man be so in love with the thought of being in love he thinks its the real thing?

No. However, you should stop lying to yourself. It makes no sense.



quote to be:

You're a dick

Yes you're right. I tend to be. However, most people have felt this way at some point. I'm just telling you what I have learned over the years experiancing this feeling. Why? you may ask. I'm telling you because your real friends wont, your family wont, and possibly no one else will. As crude as some of it sounds it works and is true. Look past the bluntness of it all and you may see guidence.

 

[decidence]

This thread is Emo.

 

[Strid]

This thread is Emo.

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