I have a weird as question XD......

darkfalcon51484

darkfalcon51484

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Well You guys know me in the game. I know i had some few problems, but lucky i have some cleared.
Well first off this has nothing top do with the game. This has to do something in my relationship. My question is....

If you ask a woman to be ur "lady" and her respond is i need to think about for a week ( cuz she went classes in ohio)..... What do you thinking she might say? I mean I know her for about 1yr or so.. We hang around cool stuff.
We havent dated. But here is also another thing that bothers me also.... And I heard that is that she had some few dates and i dont know if she was drunk or not but she ended sleeping with them. Of course this was way long ago before me and meeted. Now she in Ohio, out of the times i have called her she has answer 2/5 ><. I am not sure what she is doing. Of course it doesnt bother me because she isnt my Girlfriend.

Do you think she is taking advantage of this time before she might get in a relationship? I mean i am not a bad guy at all. I was expecting a NO but i was surpise that she said that she want to wait until she came back from Ohio. She basically rejected other guys, but not me. I told her i wanted the truth, that if she said no. I would always be her friend no matter what. I wouldnt change. But i said that I would hate you to death if you would lie to me and if you feel sorry for me. And still she said wait. But also she said i can chose to say no. Which of course i said i would wait for you.

For all the people that CAN lend me a hand on what she might say? And also what do you think? I am afraid to move on. Would she say yes or no? And if she say yes Should i move on? Do you guys believe in people changing? I need help!

P.S THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE GAME! Some little immature females
dont understand that yet. ( And you know who i am talking about if you know me)

P.S.S Sorry for any grammer errors XD
 
She is trying to think of an way to let you down easy without hurting your feelings because she is under the false impression that men and women can be friends.

She will end up with another "friend", you will end up sexually frustrated. Let it go.
 
I wouldn't put my eggs in that basket. Or rather, I wouldn't count on putting my eggs in that basket.

As Trippy said, it's a pretty high chance she's taking some time to find a good way to say 'no'. Cross your fingers, hope for the best, but as always be prepared for the worst. In fact, I'd start acting now the way you were before (as a friend). This will either make it easier for her to say 'no' to you, or it will show her that things will remain the same and may sway her to say 'yes'.
 
Like i said i expect the worest all the time. Trippy your right. I know. But weird i told her to tell me there. Either way, it dont matter to me. Too much sexual person it hard to handle not only that, but also a high way to end up cheating on me or hurting me.
 
Trippyhippy said:
She is trying to think of an way to let you down easy without hurting your feelings because she is under the false impression that men and women can be friends.

She will end up with another "friend", you will end up sexually frustrated. Let it go.
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Fast, harsh, dirty, true. {Run Away}
 
You could always make it easier on her.

"If you don't feel it enough to say "yes" right away, it's something that will never work, so forget I said anything. Want to go get a bite to eat, I'm starved?"

or the asshole version...

"yeah, if you aren't feeling it, I'm gonna need to concentrate my time on finding someone else to stick my penis in. Have a nice life."
 
Yea, she's looking for a way to let this go without causing any drama, if possible.

Plus, long distance relationships are not worth it(except for the very rare occasion). I've been through one, and been through the breakup and ensuing drama. As well, most of my friends have done the same thing.
 
It not long distance relationship, she just went to training in Ohio. She was shock on my answer. She been hurt alot too BTW. She has a fuck up father that abuse her. I believe it cuz there no way she can make something up and break into tears. I told her what i like about her and she was shocked about what i though about her. Of course guys this these just do the hit and run. I mean it got to the point that she believes that guys are all the same. She losing control. I dont know. Maybe your right trippy. But think about it, She hasnt been a relationship since his last BF which was her very first one. Which was 3 years ago. Between all this time she been free. I also think she thinking about it cuz she thinks i might control her, and be on her case. She will know that her "freedom" will not be the same. She will know that best best best best male friends.... she cant talk to them or hang around with them the same. She has to think about all this. Same thing with us male.

Trippy i am not expecting hope. Like i said i am expecting the worest. I am not very very in love. I know what i am saying. But heart feel something that i should do, I dont know either help her or something. She very very very nice person. Just that she intends to lose it. I just dont know what to do....
 
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