I wish I could be a hard ass...

[Ruffyreborn]

Because Im seriously a pussy when it comes to girls. Im in a relationship forever, and recently find out the girl has a 2nd boyfriend.. Hmm.. Awesome..

First though: What a fucking bitch
Second thought: Im going to kick this mother fuckers ass
Third thought: Fuck, Im sick...

Thing is, third thought actually came first, and I cant really get over it. For the past month and a half, shes been with this guy, and from what he's told me, they started to fuck within the first week. Wow, cool.

This bitch has been lying to me the entire time. I had this feeling (intuition?) that something was going on. (all the signs were there. Less conversation, avoiding me at times, ignoring me, and when I call, sudden hang ups.) The fucking guy has got more guts than this bitch. Fuck that shit, fuck these whoring bitches.

What the fuck does it take to become a hard ass? Do they sell pills?

 

[CmdrFly]

Get mugged, bar brawls, any sort of repeated experience to physical manhandling (fists).

Or shoot half a bottle of whiskey as you sit in their driveway, listen to some good fight music, then let the liquor take the rest of the show.

 

[meeze]

1. Thou shall not snitch
2. Thou shall not infiltrate
3. Thou shall not perpetrate
4. Thou shall not playa hate
5. Thou shall not hoe trust
6. Thou shall not hoe save
7. Thou shall not be a trick
8. Thou shall not disrespect the game
9. Thou shall not be broke
10. Thou shall not be without that thang

Learn it, live by it.

The Mac God said "Just because you meet a hoe, and she wears a jersey that says champion and eats a bowl of wheaties, don't make her a winner.

 

[Ruffyreborn]

lol, when I made this thread, I was thinkin about your "bitches" responses in pasquales thread about him and his friends gf...

 

[Negorissimo]

What does not kills us makes us stronger

You learned something with that experience. Next time it will be harder to fool you.


ps. When you get older you will like being "the other guy". No Valentine's, no movies, no birthdays. You just get there and Touchdown, then leave. ;D

 

[Ruffyreborn]

You learned something with that experience. Next time it will be harder to fool you.


ps. When you get older you will like being "the other guy". No Valentine's, no movies, no birthdays. You just get there and Touchdown, then leave. ;D

Ill make sure to scope out the gals that have BFs I know wont kick my ass lol

 

[Realia]

Wow, another one huh? What is it with our generation and not having respect for others in terms of relationships? I know girls are stupid and bitchy, and I'm sorry for her doing that to you. But we're not all like that, I swear. Older women are better anyway. ;D (<3's Aly!)

Why, might I ask, do you want to be a hard-ass? Just curious.

 

[Strid]

Why kick HIS ass? He's not the problem, she is. Like I always say, I don't blame other people for wantin' to dip in my Kool-Aid, I have good taste, but if she gives it up... it's all on her.

 

[Trippyhippy]

What the fuck does it take to become a hard ass? Do they sell pills?

It takes the complete lack of a consience. You are a better person than that.

 

[Skiewalker]

Wow Ruffy. This sucks. I'm sorry, dude.
Seriously, don't change your personality. People do stupid things, most of the time it involves larger men who could wipe the floor with you.
Best thing to do is keep your cool. Don't turn out to be a brainless retard and go out swinging, because it won't change anything except get you a few bruises and possibly a restraining order. "Badasses" usually end up in jail, with fines, and usually bad jobs due to criminal records. You're a good looking guy who's nice, so I'm sure there'll be another gal out there for you.
Was I the only one trying to be positive here? >_>;

 

[Zhaoyun]

Be a ninja, slash his tires.

 

[pakomen]

Punch a wall. It ALWAYS helps.

Man, I used to hate women so much before I met my wife. I feel ya man.

 

[duncanrun]

Because Im seriously a pussy when it comes to girls. Im in a relationship forever, and recently find out the girl has a 2nd boyfriend.. Hmm.. Awesome..

First though: What a fucking bitch
Second thought: Im going to kick this mother fuckers ass
Third thought: Fuck, Im sick...

Thing is, third thought actually came first, and I cant really get over it. For the past month and a half, shes been with this guy, and from what he's told me, they started to fuck within the first week. Wow, cool.

This bitch has been lying to me the entire time. I had this feeling (intuition?) that something was going on. (all the signs were there. Less conversation, avoiding me at times, ignoring me, and when I call, sudden hang ups.) The fucking guy has got more guts than this bitch. Fuck that shit, fuck these whoring bitches.

What the fuck does it take to become a hard ass? Do they sell pills?

Call the other guy and tell him he should probably get an STD test. That should mix things up a bit.

 

[Pasquale]

I'm probably the worst person to give relationship advice... so I won't.

Punch a wall. It ALWAYS helps.

Funny, related story:

Last year, a friend of mine got dumped on his birthday. It was brutal. He got so mad when she left that he punched his garage door, breaking his hand. We were all high, so we all though it was hilarious. (We still call him Hulk-Smash to this day.)

The next day he went to the hospital to get his now swollen as hell hand looked at. When she found out how upset he was, she went to see him at the hospital and they got back together.

Last weekend, they got engaged. True story.

 

[Stouter]

Call the other guy and tell him he should probably get an STD test. That should mix things up a bit.

That reminds me of a funny thing I heard a comedian once say. He said for a good time he called up an ex-girlfriend, and after a small amount of chit-chat say something like "well the reason I'm calling is I just got back from the doctor, and you should probably go get tested..." and then hang up.

He gets a cheap laugh, she gets to find out she doesn't have anything (or that she does, either way it's a good thing) and everybody wins.

Being a bad-ass is just as bad as being a pussy. Yeah it might be fun for the first few women, but eventually you're going to want a real relationship. Doormats are only fun for so long, after that point you might as well walk around in a sleeveless shirt and beat her when your dinner isn't ready when you're hungry.

For the happy median, don't insert yourself into her life, and don't insert her into yours. Stick with things you both like, but also do the occasional thing that she likes, or that you like. Also don't be closed, but don't be too open-ended; lines like "I'm in the mood for chinese, Great Wall tonight?" leaves you open for her opinion, while letting her know what you want.

 

[pakomen]

lines like "I'm in the mood for chinese, Great Wall tonight?" leaves you open for her opinion, while letting her know what you want.

Yes, but, lines like "bitch make me a sandwich" are usually more effective.

Ok. Sorry, it's getting late.

Ruffy, take what you can get from every relationship. Everything you go through is going to impact you and change you into the person you will eventually become. You're going to get thicker skin from girls like this. That's a good thing. As much as it sucks right now, you're going to get something out of this.

 

[Blackchaoshero]

Personally? just move on.
i had this spring up on me, my solution was as follows
Pick one night and take her out for a fun time... nothing too intimate or romantic but goodnatured fun. after, take her out for coffee, sit down, tell her you know she's cheating on you and tell her you're ending it, then get up and walk away, don't look back no matter what. the nicer and more accepting you sound when you do it, the more it's gonna twist her guts. if there's a shred of decency in her the self reproach and guilt aimed inwardly will be more than enough punishment. if it doesn't bother her she probably wasn't worth your time anyhow. In my case it made the girl look like a total cunt and she lost a few friendships and a lot of respect from a few people. Also, one of her friends picked me up on the rebound. could happen to you too.

 

[Tok]

dude, women are just as bad as men when it comes to infidelity if not worse...they know they can get any man cause of what they have and trust me, they use it to their advantage everytime

i usually never got really involved with a girl until i felt her out for a while (which is prolly why most of the time i stayed single)

it all changes when u meet the right one tho i can say that much

 

[Valandil]

Wine em. Dine em. Sixty-nine em.

 

[RoM]

It takes the complete lack of a consience. You are a better person than that.

Says the pacifist. :roll:

It takes a resolve not to allow yourself not to be walked all over by whatever situation presents itself in life. In short you must become comfortable with the idea that it's worth standing up for yourself. It's not something that can be taught, it just simply happens at certain moments of your life.

Also, fuck kicking the guy's ass. I saw you mention it but, in truth, this is the chick's fault. Were i you i'd just say fuck it and walk, in this situation that's about the only way you win. It's also probably the best way to keep from getting the cock-sniffles or something worse.

I know this is going to read wrong but, you're a kid. Slow the fuck down, enjoy it. It's all downhill from there and it sounds as if you're making a nightmare of it already based on the limited snips of your life we read around here.

P.S. (for meeze)

There's no goddamn 'E' in hos!

One's a garden tool.

One needs to get the fuck in the kitchen and make me a sandwhich before i go upside her head.

Get that shit right.