I wish I could be a hard ass...

Sorry to hear that Ruff :(

You know what I think my favorite breakup method for situations like this is, hands-down?

Give her no hint whatsoever that you know what's up til the next time you see her (and trust me . . . the users always turn up), and when you do, make sure it's at your place. Make whatever excuses you have to set the circumstances up to where the next time you see her is at your place. The only exception should be for you to retrieve anything valuable (either monetarily or sentimentally) that you might have left over at her place.

Once she gets there, have all her crap sitting in a nice little box by the door. Meet her at said door, barring her access to further into your home. Hand her her crap and simply tell her to go. When she starts to cry and act all shocked and hurt, crank it up a notch. Tell her that if she doesn't leave right now, you will report her for trespassing.

That's it - no explanations, no discussions about how she's gonna do better, how she's never gonna see whatshisface again.

And never return another call from her.

The opposite of love is not hate. It's indifference.
 
Ruffyreborn said:
Because Im seriously a pussy when it comes to girls. Im in a relationship forever, and recently find out the girl has a 2nd boyfriend.. Hmm.. Awesome..

First though: What a fucking bitch
Second thought: Im going to kick this mother fuckers ass
Third thought: Fuck, Im sick...

Thing is, third thought actually came first, and I cant really get over it. For the past month and a half, shes been with this guy, and from what he's told me, they started to fuck within the first week. Wow, cool.

This bitch has been lying to me the entire time. I had this feeling (intuition?) that something was going on. (all the signs were there. Less conversation, avoiding me at times, ignoring me, and when I call, sudden hang ups.) The fucking guy has got more guts than this bitch. Fuck that shit, fuck these whoring bitches.

What the fuck does it take to become a hard ass? Do they sell pills?
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She dont deserve you. That's what u need to think. You gave her all.She gave you a First week whore lol. Maybe you need to take less seriously Your relationships.Engage or nothing ! lol.
 
Only read the OP, so forgive me if this has been said.

You shouldn't be pissed at the dude, it's not his fault the girl is a cheating whore, he just happened to be the one she cheated with. The one you need to be mad at is the girl, and because of today's riduculous double standards, you can't beat the shit out of her like you should be able to. So, you're screwed. Harm her emotionaly and phsycologicaly,, and then move on.
 
The opposite of love is not hate. It's indifference.
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Ok you got a point. Dont hate her. It makes her important,Unforgettable .And you dont want that right?
 
Im soon an adult so if things ever end with this gf (year and a 1/2 and counting seems like forever o.o) I'm probably gonna try it out :D
 
Grandphoenix said:
1st you find some ugly possibly fat girl and date her for a few weeks seem like such a nice guy and all. Break up seem upset and talk to her better looking friends and hope they really liked you and repeat. Work your way up the ladder until your content with what you've reached to and for the most part somehow it does work.
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That is essentially the three Fs of male dating. Find her, fuck her, forget her.
 
Grandphoenix said:
Personally I prefer the mentally abuse them and give them the guilt trip+1 method. I don't use this for cheating bitchs however but for the normal bitchy girlfriend.

I've been told a dating method by a few guys called the womens ladder..

1st you find some ugly possibly fat girl and date her for a few weeks seem like such a nice guy and all. Break up seem upset and talk to her better looking friends and hope they really liked you and repeat. Work your way up the ladder until your content with what you've reached to and for the most part somehow it does work.
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holy shit... that is so assholish it might would work:old:
 
Arctyrael said:
holy shit... that is so assholish it might would work:old:
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Yup, even more so if you get your friend, or pay a guy to make out with her so you can break up all hurt and then you get even more sympathy from hot girls. Not to mention if you pick the right girl to do it on she'll probably make you look like a great guy and she is an evil evil whore.

I've not actually tried any of this though, just from general observations with girls and break-ups i'm sure it would work. But yeah assholetastic.
 
Darkdante said:
So if she never gave it up you would have stayed with her?
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I see no reason as to why he wouldn't. Sorry, not trying to answer for you Ruffy. I mean I was with my ex for three years and we never had sex because we decided to wait. I don't think that a girl should *have* to give anything up in order to be with someone. If they can't respect her and her choice then she can go find someone who will.
 
Ruffyreborn said:
Because Im seriously a pussy when it comes to girls. Im in a relationship forever, and recently find out the girl has a 2nd boyfriend.. Hmm.. Awesome..

First though: What a fucking bitch
Second thought: Im going to kick this mother fuckers ass
Third thought: Fuck, Im sick...

Thing is, third thought actually came first, and I cant really get over it. For the past month and a half, shes been with this guy, and from what he's told me, they started to fuck within the first week. Wow, cool.

This bitch has been lying to me the entire time. I had this feeling (intuition?) that something was going on. (all the signs were there. Less conversation, avoiding me at times, ignoring me, and when I call, sudden hang ups.) The fucking guy has got more guts than this bitch. Fuck that shit, fuck these whoring bitches.

What the fuck does it take to become a hard ass? Do they sell pills?
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Take this advice, Ruffy: Don't try to be a hard ass. If there is one thing that I would hate in a relationship is if my partner lied to me. Just be yourself and you'll find someone. Sure, it may take *cough* 6 years *cough* but the wait will definately be worth it.

In my own experience, I've had this happen to me. My ex-girlfriend actually turned into a lesbian on me and started dating someone else while we were still dating. It was really painful for me to face the music and realize she didn't love me anymore, but I eventually got over it. Just don't do anything stupid like I did and move on. I hope that helps.

Realia said:
;D (<3's Aly!)
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(<3's)
 
Reauland said:
Tell her that if she doesn't leave right now, you will report her for trespassing.
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Only major problem is that if you invite her over to your place you can't call the police for trespassing.

Plus if she cheated on him chances are that she won't get all teary and broken up from a little meaness from him.

Best idea is to forget her, go out with some friends to a strip club and bring a shit load of $1s.
 
Makelith said:
Only major problem is that if you invite her over to your place you can't call the police for trespassing.

Plus if she cheated on him chances are that she won't get all teary and broken up from a little meaness from him.

Best idea is to forget her, go out with some friends to a strip club and bring a shit load of $1s.
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agreed.
 
Makelith said:
Only major problem is that if you invite her over to your place you can't call the police for trespassing.

Plus if she cheated on him chances are that she won't get all teary and broken up from a little meaness from him.

Best idea is to forget her, go out with some friends to a strip club and bring a shit load of $1s.
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Once said invitation is retracted from the property owners, it's open game for trespassing as they've been warned to remove themselves from the premises.

Ruffy:

Ouch. Never an easy thing to deal with. I can't speak from experience, but I can empathize. That's been one of my big fears of putting myself out there for someone else...

If you want to be a hardass, heh you've got a ways to go.

You seem to have too much nice-guy in you, and I don't mean Kage. <3

The best you can do is just get outta bed, live another day, enjoy it, call it a night, wash, rinse, repeat.

Living well and enjoying your life much more without her in it is the best payback.

Having the time of your life and making the most of each day, when her poon is discharging some painful yellow liquid will just serve as a reminder to life without Ruffy.

Anyway, take it in stride bud.

It's a painful experience, a deep wound time'll never completely heal, but eh you're alive and kicking.

Just don't go emo-DRK on us. ;]

Oh, and for the nice-types like you who know there are boyfriends in the picture who might kick your ass..?

That's why you should have friends like me.

/flex <3

-Lec

P.S.: Get outta bed, live another day, enjoy it, call it a night, wash, rinse, repeat.
 
i fall in love(yes love,love,love,love? ) with a girl that was cheating me with her best friend for like 6 months D: i need some moral support too
 
Dethan said:
i fall in love(yes love,love,love,love? ) with a girl that was cheating me with her best friend for like 6 months D: i need some moral support too
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If her best friend is a girl I'll trade videos for moral support.
 
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