Might as well clear things up. I took a break from FFXI for a couple months and when I came back some friends invited me to their ls, VooDooLounge. At the time I didn't do much other then help ls, and static with some good friends. There were some RMT in ls when I joined. I, at the time, had the idea of if friends or ls needs help and I'm available, I try and help. I didn't realize or think about how RMT effected (sp) the server, I never really dealt with it before. I just saw it as helping ls. After a couple months and talking with many people, friends and people I didn't know, I realized that it was not a good idea and I stopped. This was about a year ago. I was wrong and made a mistake, nothing I can really do about it now. Reguarding (sp) the lovey dovey things, they hit on and /em any female character around from what I saw and was told, and I don't recall myself ever slapping anyone.