If you value your time, don't invite Sheladaris

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Excalibr said:
Where do you get off making baseless, false and retarded accusation's like that?
You really need to get over this grudge you have against me. I could say that I wanted world peace and you would take time out of your life to list all the reasons why I'm wrong. Whatever I did to you, let it the fuck go.



Ouch! My pride

Bajaratt is one of maybe the few people on this server that doesn't let grudges choose her flames. She flames in accordance to the things said not the people that said it, I know.

Now to Rappa:

On the other hand helping an LS member, or the LS in general is more important then an exp party imo. Theres a chance he had been seeking a long time and forgot the time it was. He was most likely with you guys at least half an hour seeing how you had to run to Khazam and back before you were able to start.

Also you started with you decided to go xp because of a bad dynamis run which might be taken to the less intellegent people(or people that only skim) that read these forums as you were trying to recap a 75 job.
 
Leaving an xp party to help LS members is one of those excuses people use because it's so easy to bash on someone who calls out the party ditcher using that excuse. "OMG, wtf man I jus wana help my frends, y u b hatin?"

To be honest it's such a grey area that even I would hesitate to call someone on it . . . but jeez man, if you're gonna ditch on 5 other complete strangers who are relying on you, you'd better be DAMN sure that your LS ABSOLUTELY needs you RIGHT FREAKING NOW. Not "my ls is gonna form an xp party in the next hour" needs you, not "we might be doing an ENM but only if so-and-so's mom lets him stay up an hour later" needs you, and certainly not "come and sit in Whitegate with your thumb up your ass in case we decide to do something" needs you.
 
Fellina said:
Leaving an xp party to help LS members is one of those excuses people use because it's so easy to bash on someone who calls out the party ditcher using that excuse. "OMG, wtf man I jus wana help my frends, y u b hatin?"

To be honest it's such a grey area that even I would hesitate to call someone on it . . . but jeez man, if you're gonna ditch on 5 other complete strangers who are relying on you, you'd better be DAMN sure that your LS ABSOLUTELY needs you RIGHT FREAKING NOW. Not "my ls is gonna form an xp party in the next hour" needs you, not "we might be doing an ENM but only if so-and-so's mom lets him stay up an hour later" needs you, and certainly not "come and sit in Whitegate with your thumb up your ass in case we decide to do something" needs you.

You have to understand that at the time this happened they immediatly got pissed at him. Seeing him 15 mins later seeking or doing nothing not helping LS, yes you have a reason to get mad. But he continously said he was sorry and the party was going off on him right away.

Its cool when people can understand that other players do not have the same ingame priorities as they do and can come to a mutual agreement. Find others that would rather xp then help out theyre linkshell and your fine, or better yet make a static.
 
Charcoip said:
You have to understand that at the time this happened they immediatly got pissed at him. Seeing him 15 mins later seeking or doing nothing not helping LS, yes you have a reason to get mad. But he continously said he was sorry and the party was going off on him right away.

Regardless of the reason, parent aggro, "LS needs me," etc., anyone would be justified in being a little miffed in a situation like that. Also, your idea of what "going off" is seems a little off-kilter. Telling someone that they've wasted your time doesn't come off to me as any more than a statement of fact under those circumstances. It's not as if they immediately jumped straight to cussing him out or anything. Considering that the reason he left was to join what was essentially a merit party is even more reason.

Furthermore, saying "I'm sorry," is not a free pass for irresponsible or self-serving behavior. Think "I'm sorry" would make TheFlock feel any differently about you?
 
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Lolsheladaris.... The dude's a Gilbuyer... hahahaha I've seen the stupid things he's said and done on my cousin's account. If you think I'm lying Shel lol ask Aen.

Lvls up every fucking job and never farms cuz he already has it from buying all that gil. What he just demonstrated was a trait all gilbuyers have. Doesn't like how the pts going...eh he's gonna leave and lvl up another job...he doesn't give a shit.
 
He said "I'm sorry" to ditching out on 5 other people's xp with no good reason other than "my ls needs me for some mysterious reason that I won't tell you about". It's completely understandable and justified to get pissed off right away. Seeing him sitting pretty in Whitegate 30 minutes later is just icing, because it shows how hollow his apology really was.

IF you're going to leave an xp party for your linkshell, it had better be because it's an emergency and you're irreplaceable to the linkshell (i.e. Charby is up and unclaimed, you're the only NIN) and it's happening RIGHT THEN, not "sometime soon". And if you're leaving your xp party for something like that, at least have the fucking courtesy to say so. Don't be all "lulz I gotta go sry bye" /disband.
 
We got pissed because this isn't the first time we've seen him do this. A couple days earlier he did the same thing to another pt that was camped in the same area. 15 mins exping then "gotta go help LS". If the guy perpetually does this, the community needs to know to be aware of it. He wasn't helping his LS, he was helping someone FROM his LS lvl and getting merits while doing it. Don't give us that bull shit tired excuse just to justify leaving a pt.

(And Baj is a he).
 
Valcristiel said:
Lolsheladaris.... The dude's a Gilbuyer... hahahaha I've seen the stupid things he's said and done on my cousin's account. If you think I'm lying Shel lol ask Aen.

Lvls up every fucking job and never farms cuz he already has it from buying all that gil. What he just demonstrated was a trait all gilbuyers have. Doesn't like how the pts going...eh he's gonna leave and lvl up another job...he doesn't give a shit.

And I've just been made aware of this recently as well.
 
I'd love to hear some of this dirt, Val (hi there by the way ^^).

What exactly have you seen him doing and saying?
 
Legomyeggo said:
Allegedly. Word on the street is, he pees sitting down.
Hey, that's just being cautious so there's no splatter on my pants.
 
Charcoip said:
Also you started with you decided to go xp because of a bad dynamis run which might be taken to the less intellegent people(or people that only skim) that read these forums as you were trying to recap a 75 job.

If you weren't such a moron, you would have seen that they went to level jobs around the 40's.
 
Charcoip said:
You have to understand that at the time this happened they immediatly got pissed at him. Seeing him 15 mins later seeking or doing nothing not helping LS, yes you have a reason to get mad. But he continously said he was sorry and the party was going off on him right away.

Its cool when people can understand that other players do not have the same ingame priorities as they do and can come to a mutual agreement. Find others that would rather xp then help out theyre linkshell and your fine, or better yet make a static.

So you're saying that if anyone invites you to an experience party, that you're going to ditch them as soon as anything comes up?

That should do wonders for your invite rate...
 
Gotta love how Sheladaris has the time to post a new topic on GD but can't respond to a flame.
 
Valcristiel said:
Lolsheladaris.... The dude's a Gilbuyer... hahahaha I've seen the stupid things he's said and done on my cousin's account. If you think I'm lying Shel lol ask Aen.

Lvls up every fucking job and never farms cuz he already has it from buying all that gil. What he just demonstrated was a trait all gilbuyers have. Doesn't like how the pts going...eh he's gonna leave and lvl up another job...he doesn't give a shit.

I kinda assumed he was, when he hit 75 mnk suddenly he had an osode/flame rings/etc etc. He told me they were given to him....hmmmmmm
 
I love the excuse for gilbuyers

Person>>"hey how can you have all the sweet gear?"
Gilbuyer>>"I got lucky and a friend gave me millions of gil in gear for free."
Person>>"..."
 
SE is hindering sellers. looks like it up to us to get rid of the buyers. :banghead3:
 
Zaltana said:
SE is hindering sellers. looks like it up to us to get rid of the buyers. :banghead3:

ya right, people protect their buyer friends, even when they admitted it in the past. They'd rather have a friend, fucking lonely geeks.
 
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