Ive been lookin to do this KSNM for a longtime. All the info I gathered is this... You fight 1 - NM Bee and 8 other Bees all at once. All the bees have standard bee abilities but the NM bee spams Cure V on either itself or other bees and it also has the 2hr Benediction.
2 stratagies Ive heard of are Nin & Whm tank NM, Blm & Rdm sleep other bees and remaining 2 DDs (at least w/ nin sub) kill other bees one-by-one.
OR, Full Bst pt tame 6 out-of 8 of the bees. 4 bees attack Nm and 2 bees take on the 2 left over bees. As bees die just use call pet or just kill w/ weapons.