Yeah this Tuku guy was just being a jerk.
When we got him and were just about to head out is when he pulled his tantrum about not getting fast enough xp. So he did that in party chat and immediately his name got the disconnection dot. Everyone took bets on whether it was a force dc and I'm guessing it was.
Then Cel noticed he was back when we had to get a new mage and that conversation ensued.
Dumping a party because your members are switching up jobs, buying food, getting signet, etc. and it's taking too long for you is pretty mean. They're loading out properly to do a good job in the party and to party as long as possible. I'd rather have my mage go back and get his dark staff than rush him out before he's ready. (lol our RDM the other day actually did do that)
Also, personally I don't care what job you are, whether you can pick or choose your parties, there is no reason to be rude. When you go online and are talking to 4, 5, 40 other real life people you'll make a lot more friends if you don't tell them to 'fuck off' all the time. If he had pulled this stuff in party chat the first time I would have just booted him and gotten someone else. For me it doesn't matter what job you are, if you treat me and my party members like dirt, you'll get to take a hike.
Oh and off-topic, someone on an earlier page was mentioned BLU and said that only boss mobs get dispel. I know efts in bibiki bay have dispelga and some of the weapons in sky and moon have regular dispel. The dispel is magic though, but dispelga might have been a job ability. BLU only gets job abilities so idk what'll happen there. Refresh is out though Cel.