Theres no reason to be missing the first two attack rounds of a fight if your paying attention.... If your not pulling then why can't you engage (this can be done at 30 paces) cast bio (can be done at 21) and be done with it before the mob gets in range (5 or less)
Also, why do you automatically cast stun? stun is an extremely handy tool and could be useful to not have to wait 45 seconds to come back up. Theres no way that your tank needs a stun in the first 5 seconds of a fight. What if you have a ninja tank and he gets double attacked or hit with a multi-hit WS??? your stun could save his life, or at the very least save some MP that is needed to cure him now. There is absolutely no reason to have stun in your engage macro....
I know its just a game, and maybe they over-reacted, but here we go again, you're making another flame with snap judgements about an entire ethnicity this time, and giving everyone plenty of ammunition to tear you down... You know why the "Fucking JP" were acting like you suck, because you probably did.... as you've demonstrated in almost every flame/thread you've made in in last 6 months at least. Take out your pen and pad, because your about to get schooled again.
I don't know what other advice to give you at this moment, I'm sitting here scratching my brain, trying to make sure that i'm being impartial and giving you an honest opinion. And I think I am, but man this is getting ridiculous... If I had to force it I would say, Don't throw stones when you live in a glass house"
Maybe you could just pretend it was one of those parties where they should've kicked you and didn't.