By the way Nycon was making it sound, it seemed as though it was something offhand and completely unrelated to the conversation at hand. In RL I've asked friends how exes are doing, its not really a big deal... Unless the person already doesn't like me... in which that is a completely different story. But again even if it was used to incite drama, I think that Nycon is over reacting on the issue.
It was totally random and uncalled for. But, I guess Jamal wanted to try to hit me where it hurt, which didn't quite work because asking how he was while he was browsing QCDN seems a little redundant. Obviously if his health and well being was a concern of mine, he wouldn't be on QCDN, he'd be in a hospital. Me and my ex didn't really have that bad a break up... so it didn't really evoke any anger.
And not to mention his posts were deleted from the chat box. Not sure if it was him or an admin, but that's a little :wacko:.
But I think there's a difference between Rate ups/downs and PMs versus Chatbox and posts. Until either of you brings it out and posts it (not saying Jyakotsu and Bigbroon haven't, I just haven't seen it posted), I think it's private.