LIFE'S A BITCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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yuraraina

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All my life

I will never find another sweeter than you,
Sweeter than you
I will never find another more precious than you,
More precious than you
Girl you are Close to me you’re like my mother,
Close to me you’re like my father,
Close to me you’re like my sister,
Close to me you’re like my brother
You are the only one my everything and for you this song I
Sing

All my life I pray for someone like you
I thank God that I, that I finally found you
All my life I pray for someone like you
I hope that you feel the same way too
Yes, I pray that you do, love me too

Said I promised to never fall in with a another,
You’re all I’m thinking of I praise the Lord above,
For sending me your love, I cherish every hug,
I REALLY LOVE YOU!!!

All my life, I pray for someone like you,
I thank God that I, that I finally found you
All my life I pray for someone like you
I hope that you feel the same way too
Yes, I pray that you do, love me

You’re all that I’ve ever known, your smile on your face,
All I see is a glow,
You turned my life around,
You picked me up when I was down,
You’re all that I’ve ever known, when you smile
Your face glows,
You picked me up when I was down
You’re all that I’ve ever known, when you smile
Your face glows,
You picked me up when I was down & I hope
That you feel the same way too,
Yes I pray that you do love me too

All my life, I pray for someone like you,
I thank God that I, that I finally found you
All my life I pray for someone like you
I hope that you feel the same way too
Yes, I pray that you do, love me too

This Is Going Out To My Baby I Lost .
I Love Baby Sorry you Couldn't Live Long Enough To See Your Mom and Your Dad.
 
Just to clarify...Yes, me and my wife Nikkie(Yura) lost our 1st child together in a mis-carriage...This is why we've both been so stressed recently...Life is a mother-fucking bitch to deal with and now we realized that it's not just someone else who loses anything...We both lost something very fucking important to us...and Now I don't know what to do in this situation...I'm not going to apologize for anything we've said or done, it's not right to ... I don't guess many of you on this board even give a rat's ass because of what happened this week with the Flameboard...

I love my wife and I want to have children with her...it's just when this kind of shit happens I just don't know what to do anymore...

lates... :cry:
 
Well i dunno if I should say this..and if this offends you..I'm sorry

You shouldn't take it too hard on yourselves. You guys did nothing wrong.
 
you can make all the right moves and still end up disapointed but if you keep trying at it things will turn out OK i hope... my friend dustin's parents had 4 miscarriages before they had him, then another and then his sister, persevere. i can't begin to say how sorry i feel for you to have to experience this, it must be devastating and there's nothing you can do about it... i hope you can find some closure and a measure of peace.
 
Blackchaoshero said:
you can make all the right moves and still end up disapointed but if you keep trying at it things will turn out OK i hope... my friend dustin's parents had 4 miscarriages before they had him, then another and then his sister, persevere. i can't begin to say how sorry i feel for you to have to experience this, it must be devastating and there's nothing you can do about it... i hope you can find some closure and a measure of peace.
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I really hope we don't have to deal with this ... again at all... it hurt way to much once let alone 4 times...then another? They have some real courage...and that's admirable I love my wife very much...and don't want anything but to be with her and have a child with her...

I don't ever want to deal with this again but I guess talking with everyone about it makes us feel a bit better, it's just life's a bitch...and you have do deal with it or just stop all together...

We will go on and again until we are successfull in our efforts...I love Nikkie so much and I hope she knows this ... I tell her this all the time, but i just really want her to know how I do feel about her and what we're doing I know we will get it one of these times, and God will know that it will be the one...how does this happen? Why does someone deserve this...this kind of pain...
 
You said this has happened 4 times? Has she gone to a doctor to see if theres anything wrong that could be causing the problem? Just suggestion ><
 
yeah life is a biaaaaatch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sometimes , but a good day will find its way somehow so, always be hopeful that one special day is close
 
BlackMage said:
You said this has happened 4 times? Has she gone to a doctor to see if theres anything wrong that could be causing the problem? Just suggestion ><
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no he didnt say that, re read hhehe.. im too lazy to explain

sorry for the loss <3
 
Ronith said:
Just to clarify...Yes, me and my wife Nikkie(Yura) lost our 1st child together in a mis-carriage...This is why we've both been so stressed recently...Life is a mother-fucking bitch to deal with and now we realized that it's not just someone else who loses anything...We both lost something very fucking important to us...and Now I don't know what to do in this situation...I'm not going to apologize for anything we've said or done, it's not right to ... I don't guess many of you on this board even give a rat's ass because of what happened this week with the Flameboard...

I love my wife and I want to have children with her...it's just when this kind of shit happens I just don't know what to do anymore...

lates... :cry:
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I Love You Too Ron
Seriously wish this on no one this really hurts.
 
WAIT A SECOND... in the pictures thread you said you are 18 or soon to be?

and you already had or try to have your first kid? oh wow...

Anyways sorry for your loss, i'm really lost for words because I can't say I know how you feel because I dont.
 
regardless of their age, the loss of a child is a burden no parent, nay, ANYONE should have to bear witness to. IMO, you 2 may want to consider taking a break from playing just to get your lives back into order, as difficult as this may seem. one thing i know from experience, when u play during a difficult time in your RL, you don't do too well with w/e your doing, as this will only weigh on your mind. i am deeply sorry for your loss, yur and ron, and i hope that in time, the wounds of this tragic event will heal.
 
Rones said:
and you already had or try to have your first kid? oh wow...
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Actually this is their fourth attempt if I read right (or Yura's at least).
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Thats someone else, blackchaoshero's friend, not Ronith and Yura. :)
 
First, let me start by saying that I'm truly sorry for your loss. I can't relate in the regard that I haven't had it happen to me personally, but I know that it's every mother-to-be's worst fear.

I also hope that what I'm about to say won't sound callous. Please consider that I have only helping intentions in mind, and have no wish to lay more pain onto an already devastating situation. Now having said that . . .

I know it was mentioned that Ronith is not yet 18. I'm assuming that Yura is a similar age. You may want to consider waiting a few years before having children. It's medical fact that although girls are capable of having children as young as 12 or 13 years of age, the younger you are, the higher the risk of complications and miscarriage. The ideal age range for having a child is actually between 23 and 30- statistically speaking, mothers in this age range have the greatest success rate, and the lowest risk of birth defects.

Having a child when your body hasn't fully developed yet is hard. I've seen 2 of my friends go through pregnancies in their teen years, and both had rough pregnancies.

Your most fertile years are still in the future. Take this time to grow and develop the love you have between you. Enjoy the freedom your youth gives you for a couple years, before you shackle yourself to a diaper bag. The number one regret of most parents is that they didn't take the time to go on that romantic couples vacation they dreamed of before the addition of children put it off for a dozen years, lol.
 
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