Xalioniaf said:
Members under 10 posts have to have their posts approved by a mod. That's the reason you never see advert posts anymore.
I figured that was the case, Xalioniaf, and relayed that to him. I'll go back and see if his post has popped up yet...
...nnnnope. Well, I guess no mods are paying attention to this thread, then. Can't say I blame them.
Tristam Green said:
Your defense fails.
This is the reason why.
Seriously, if Berndmax really does have problems of the nature you're talking about, I'd venture to guess that it's his own business to tell us, and not yours.
I'd easily listen to him, since I've never had any issues with him in or out of game.
Well, you believe what you like. In my years of friendship with Bern, I've always known him to be somewhat embarrassed by his handicap and unwilling to talk about to all but his closest friends. Think about it. Berndmax coming out and telling you that he's a lousy player because he's mentally handicapped would be like you (hypothetically) having to admit that you don't have kids yet because you're
impotent. A harsh parallel, and I am not trying to attack you personally, but I'm drawing it to illustrate why I'm speaking up in his defense.
Because, having fewer than 10 posts to his account means that he can't come and speak for himself.
Stine said:
Bern is an awesome friend although due to my lack of being online very often, I don't get to chat with him much. I have known him for years through this and never realized that he was mentally handicapped. I've partied with him many times ranging around lvl 10 to 30 I think. I'm pretty patient with people in general so of course I'm more patient with a friend like Bern. I am sorry to hear that something like this happened and yes maybe someone should have offered him advice or some gear but I have know idea what was said at the party or what his reaction was. Everyone has the right to their own opinion and I understand that most people want to party without having to worry about someone knowing how to play their job. I'm not saying that it was okay for Bern to have that gear but being his friend I would have lent him nine if I had known.
Stine, hearts like yours are few and far between. You always try to see the best in everyone you encounter, and it often blinds your conscious eye to their worst. I, for example, am an asshole. I admit this up front so that those people who bless me with their friendship have no illusions about my worst traits. Whether you consciously realized it or not, you've known about Bern's shortcomings all along. Berndmax is truly blessed that you call him friend, and I only wish more players could be as patient with him as you are.
Stine said:
I know that you probably won't read this because you're done with this thread but Eca, honestly I thought you and I were on speaking terms. I know that you're busy and I'm busy too so when I do see you ingame you're either afk or I am. Hornless already apologized you and she was hoping for one in return from you. Also, please stop thinking that whatever Hornless or Tristam thinks is also what I think. I am an individual and I love them but I don't agree with every little detail that they say. I am Horny's twin not her little person that she can tell what to think. I married Tristam because I loved him for him not because he thinks just like me. Most people who know us know that we differ in opinion about a lot of things.
God, I miss you.
I thought I had apologized to Horny. If I have not, let this be a public apology now:
Hornless, I'm sorry.
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