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my and my girl friend are having real serious problems... the stress of the long distance relationship has finally caught up to us... i am so fucking devestated... i dunno what to do... she say she loves me but she is so cold to me... as if she wants me to go.... i dont want to leave her but i feel she is making it so i have too.... the pain is so great... i cried like a bitch all last night.... i dunno how to get over 3 yrs of love.... i know it was over a distance but i was loyal to her... i never cheated i never went out with other ppl i always made time for her and now she acts as if i am stupid and i am not worth her time... this will be my last post for reasons i gotta rebuild my life... i feel so wasted... she was my hope... now i feel like i am an island.... no one can comfort me... they give me ... advice and to move on but its hard... she was the one i wanted to marry... to spend my life with... i even thought about taking up 2 jobs so she wouldnt have to work... i did everything for her... and yet she claims i am selfish... i am sorry guys for posting this but i have no were to go i feel... i am so alone... i dunno how to cope.
 
Sorry to hear that Pedro. I truly hope it works out for you. :cry:
 
Relationships suck and I am very sorry.

I can tell you what I do in that situation which i've been in many times before. Stay in bed for a week watching crappy movies. After that go out to the bar and get drunk (skip this step if your an emotional drunk) and get laid. It's a given' you get some action within' a week of a breakup. It's true. If you want you can even ride that wave for like a month. It's the cosmic law of breaking up. Might sound horrible, but getting love from other people helps the pain (not 100% of the time! this is how you tell how in love you were). Well that's what I do.

I had a long distance relationship once I do have to say those things suck so bad I will never do it again. I have needs and I can't fill those needs over the phone.

One last thing. These are totally lame but very, very true:

Their are a MILLION TIMES INFINITY fish in the sea.
Time heals all wounds. You'll get over it dude. Remember that.
 
;_; that sucks.

Don't drink beer! Don't get drunk over it, it wont solve anything, even though it might seem so. It will come back no matter what. Just give it some time...:/
 
onions said:
Relationships suck and I am very sorry.

I can tell you what I do in that situation which i've been in many times before. Stay in bed for a week watching crappy movies. After that go out to the bar and get drunk (skip this step if your an emotional drunk) and get laid. It's a given' you get some action within' a week of a breakup. It's true. If you want you can even ride that wave for like a month. It's the cosmic law of breaking up. Might sound horrible, but getting love from other people helps the pain (not 100% of the time! this is how you tell how in love you were). Well that's what I do.

I had a long distance relationship once I do have to say those things suck so bad I will never do it again. I have needs and I can't fill those needs over the phone.

One last thing. These are totally lame but very, very true:

Their are a MILLION TIMES INFINITY fish in the sea.
Time heals all wounds. You'll get over it dude. Remember that.
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ummmm sex is not love...lol
 
Oh man... so sorry to hear that. Me and my girlfriend have been together about 3 years now... and we're dealing with the whole long distance relationship as well. I know it can be hard as hell to keep things straight when you're so far apart. But don't worry man.. keep your head up and I'm sure things will be fine in no time.^^
 
Amidamaru said:
its true getting drunk wont solve anything
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Sure as hell solved that walking problem I had. I've got a talking problem I need to fix too... hmmm....

P.S. I meant "getting drunk" as in going to the bar and hanging out with good friends and partying a little. You know having some fun out on the town. A little bachelor action.
 
Omg if I lost 40 pounds due to greiving..I would die XD I'm so skinny XD
 
Kiere said:
onions said:
Relationships suck and I am very sorry.

I can tell you what I do in that situation which i've been in many times before. Stay in bed for a week watching crappy movies. After that go out to the bar and get drunk (skip this step if your an emotional drunk) and get laid. It's a given' you get some action within' a week of a breakup. It's true. If you want you can even ride that wave for like a month. It's the cosmic law of breaking up. Might sound horrible, but getting love from other people helps the pain (not 100% of the time! this is how you tell how in love you were). Well that's what I do.

I had a long distance relationship once I do have to say those things suck so bad I will never do it again. I have needs and I can't fill those needs over the phone.

One last thing. These are totally lame but very, very true:

Their are a MILLION TIMES INFINITY fish in the sea.
Time heals all wounds. You'll get over it dude. Remember that.
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ummmm sex is not love...lol
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You are right of course.










I sleep better when sex is over......
 
Kiere said:
onions said:
Relationships suck and I am very sorry.

I can tell you what I do in that situation which i've been in many times before. Stay in bed for a week watching crappy movies. After that go out to the bar and get drunk (skip this step if your an emotional drunk) and get laid. It's a given' you get some action within' a week of a breakup. It's true. If you want you can even ride that wave for like a month. It's the cosmic law of breaking up. Might sound horrible, but getting love from other people helps the pain (not 100% of the time! this is how you tell how in love you were). Well that's what I do.

I had a long distance relationship once I do have to say those things suck so bad I will never do it again. I have needs and I can't fill those needs over the phone.

One last thing. These are totally lame but very, very true:

Their are a MILLION TIMES INFINITY fish in the sea.
Time heals all wounds. You'll get over it dude. Remember that.
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ummmm sex is not love...lol
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1. It's supposed to be, but now that the "sex is crap, just do it" generation has sprung, it's lost its appeal.

2. Sex before marriage= Wrong. I know that over half of the world(or america) may have different opinion, but I believe that it's wrong.
 
I had long distance relationships before. :x

It's either something that you can reconcile, or you just need to move on and get away from. Sounds like you know what about it bothers you. Just be straight forward and honest, and it'll work out one way or the other. Either way, you will be better off. If it ends, it's definitely not the end.

Good luck!
 
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