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Anyone have any words of wisdom with this?

I'm kinda finding myself to be attracted to them(around 4 years older...i'm not sure if that's a big deal or difference), I'm sure it'd be a different field with them being almost done with college, jobs, expectations,etc.

P.S- Dejan post here
 
No words of wisdom from me, I've honestly never been particularly attracted to a woman that was noticeably older than me. And typically, at least a few years younger.
 
My brothers friends have fucked 2 milfs in my house.... I don't go near those rooms anymore.
 
Lol <.< *older women* <.<

Ask Sharpe... his girlfriend is almost 5 years older than him <.<
IMO 4 years is not a big deal... I think the girl has a bigger problem with the age than you...
 
Avoid the subject of your age if you get them to go out with you. If it does come up, lie your ass off. Women only want older mature men, so they can be gold diggers. Its a scientific fact.
 
Chiimister said:
Lol <.< *older women* <.<

Ask Sharpe... his girlfriend is almost 5 years older than him <.<
IMO 4 years is not a big deal... I think the girl has a bigger problem with the age than you...
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Yup Chii is 4 and a half years older than me and we get on fine. Wouldn't change her for the world. Yes she works and i'm still in Uni but neither of us has a problem with it and she even helps me with my work :). To be honest when we are together out in town or at home I never feel like she's older than me, it's only when I see her age written down or someone asks how old she is that I even realise she's older :).
 
Makelith said:
Avoid the subject of your age if you get them to go out with you. If it does come up, lie your ass off. Women only want older mature men, so they can be gold diggers. Its a scientific fact.
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Solan: what is milf?

Make: I'm really too blunt of a person and dont lie. most of the women my age or a year younger(19) act like they are still 15-16, let's jump bones and do drugs and claim you got em preggers. I'm unusually serious for my age(upbringing) and it's just hard to just shrug offl; ironically I've heard that women that are a bit older like dating men younger as men get older they outgrow the hormones and women start to go into the peak of their own around that time(no lol not the reason i'm doing this). I think it'd be an interesting possibility

Darkdante: LOL good one! ;)

Sharpe & Chiimi: Thank you, it'd just seem that it'd be a different playing field since they're a little farther in life than you and are looking for more things than one your age, it would seem to depend on the person I guess
 
Sharpe is 20 btw <.<

Anyway... some girls set a high value on what you do and what you earn... but this does not really have something to do with the age...
Either is wants you as well or she doesnt :)
 
How old are you Khidir? I mean, if you are 16 and the chick you're pining for is 20... I could see that being a problem. After all kids, statutory rape is never funny...


But seriously, some women dig younger guys. Makes them feel more youthful when they go out. I'm currently dating a girl 8 years older than me, and in all of one month it hasn't posed as an issue. We do the same dumb stuff (kinda how we met) and everything works out. Actually, I dig this girl a whole lot more than most girls in there early 20's anyway. At least she knows what she really wants, younger girls can change thier mind about you over a weekend!


If you do manage to find an older woman to date, jump in head first brother. They can teach you so many, many things about every aspect of a relationship.


Besides, bubblegum chewing-lap dog in the purse-bleached blonde is way overrated anyway.
 
"[After legality is taken care of] age is all about mind over matter.
If they don't mind, it don't matter."

(Believe or not, this was my Science Teacher talking...)


MILF refers to hot older woman, which obviously what you're after :spiteful:


I don't see 4 years being a problem. Heck my parents are 8 years apart themselves. Take your own advice and stop 'dithering' and do it!
 
It's all about your personality and what you find attractive in people of the opposite sex, or same sex if you're gay.

Some guys find older women attractive because they've come to realize what they want from a man, and don't play annoying little games. Some guys like younger women because of the games they play.

A typical woman around 20 is attracted to older men because she is looking towards the future and wants a stable man to settle down with. Many women around 30 are attracted to younger men because they make them feel pretty by choosing them over the hot young girls.

In every relationship there is a dominant partner, to at least some degree. If you're attracted to older women, you are probably more of a submissive person looking for someone to take care of you. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that, and if you can realize and accept it then you're one step closer to finding that special someone, because you know what you're looking for.

Personally I'm more of a traditional guy, and the closest thing I've had to an attraction to an older woman was with a girl 3 months older than me (but dumb as hell, and a year behind me in school) because I like being the aggressor, and my instinct is to be the chivalrous guy that swoops in and takes care of all of the woman's problems. But being a libertarian at heart, I say go with what makes you happy, and as long as you aren't hurting or taking advantage of someone then you aren't doing anything wrong.
 
Chiimister said:
I always thought Mum I'd Like to Fuck
and this is a BIG difference just to older women <.<
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Milf normally refers to one of your friend's moms, although it can mean any woman with kids, and is almost always a much older woman. I know a woman that said her mom was a milf, and that in high school one of her boyfriends had sex with her mom... very Jerry Springer-esque. Side note, before she introduced any boyfriend to her mom from that day on, she made them promise that they wouldn't have sex with her, seriously.
 
When you said "Older Women", I first thought about women in their 40's and above... heh.

Anyway, doesn't really matter if you're in your 20's tbh. 4 years is nothing. It can seem like a lot at first. 10 versus 14, 20 versus 24. But the older you get, the less it matters. I mean, 60 versus 64 doesn't sound like a huge difference, now does it? Personally, I prefer women 3-0 years younger than me, or 1 year older.
 
I'm 19 fyi (turned it last 28 of Oct. nei)

she's 22 atm, and I dont really have time...unless I quit my job I'm usually online for about 3-4 hrs then back to sleep for school/work the next morn.

It does kinda suck I met her through work and of course like the hotshot I am I didnt ask or a name/number(since it didnt occur-irony right?-at the time)

so if i quit I'd probrably never see her again but she does go to my college but i've never seen her there and she graduates next sem.

it's not really a big deal, it's just a what-if and what to expect if I did
 
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StanDarsh said:
... Never speak to me again.
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O wait...so that woman I slept with was your....?!

you can call me dad now Darsha

neisan: so how exactly are you doing with that girl you met in england nei? =3
 
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Khidir said:
O wait...so that woman I slept with was your....?!

you can call me dad now Darsha

neisan: so how exactly are you doing with that girl you met in england nei? =3
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*heavy breathing..* ... "csshhhh.... cshhhh" Darsha... I am your faaaather!


Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
 
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