Once bitten...twice shy?

[Tok]

http://www.qcdn.org/ffxi/showthread.php?t=48133&highlight=hits

remember this?

well...a couple months back we settled our difference's and got back together...everything was back to normal again i thought till about a couple days after valentines day

she started becomming someone different, and we started to fight again...now she's completely different from the girl i knew and i'm at a loss

now she's telling me she has feelings for another guy and i dont know how i should deal with it...i'm extremely pissed off and seriously depressed at the same time and i dont know which emotion to run with

i dont expect any sympathy from anyone...i was a fucking tool to think things would be different...but i loved her and i still do...i just don't understand what i did to be hurt like this again

 

[Mistra]

This isn't meant to be a slap in the face, but get over it. There are other women out there. Do not dwell on this forever.

 

[Uzor]

As Mistra says, you just need to get over it. Sure, it will be hard and can take some time, but taking someone back after they've acted like a complete ass to you the first time is stupid, and makes the other person think they can do what they want with you, and use you as a "last resort" if they need someone to fall back to.

If you want to be that guy, then sure, take her back again, if she want to later. But I'd recommend you move on. Break off contact with her right there, and don't call her to see how shes doing. Doing so will only strengthen your own pain and make it take longer to get over. If you haven't broken up yet, tell her you break up, and that you can't date someone that don't respect your feelings. It would be best for both of you if you went different ways.

Disclaimer: There's an old (well, not old, but let's say it is.) saying that goes "Don't take tips from strangers online", so do what feels best.

 

[Tok]

i broke up with her earlier tonight, i pretty much told her i wasnt going to go through what i went through again, im definatly not taking it as hard as i did last time but it does suck cause i still care for her

i wont let her do this to me again though so i did tell her how i felt

 

[Romper]

i broke up with her earlier tonight, i pretty much told her i wasnt going to go through what i went through again, im definatly not taking it as hard as i did last time but it does suck cause i still care for her

i wont let her do this to me again though so i did tell her how i felt

Cheers Tok you'll find another girl that's more mature than her.

 

[exodusamphi]

Damn tok always going through the woman drama. Im suprised you went back to her, but I know how it is. Ive had that one girl who treats me bad but i always crawl back.

Then, 2 years later, I have a fiancee who I met at a Cinco de Mayo party.

Moral: You can and will find great people anywhere, especially when you least expect and even arent looking for the right one.

 

[Sapper]

It takes a long time to get over someone you truly care about. The only thing I cant tell you is that time heals all wounds and eventually you will look back and say to yourself "Why the hell did I act like that for her". I know its hard because its fresh but a few months from now, and a few love intrests later, it will make sense to you

 

[Tok]

Damn tok always going through the woman drama. Im suprised you went back to her, but I know how it is. Ive had that one girl who treats me bad but i always crawl back.

Then, 2 years later, I have a fiancee who I met at a Cinco de Mayo party.

Moral: You can and will find great people anywhere, especially when you least expect and even arent looking for the right one.

yea, looking back i dont think i would have went back to her if i knew this shit would hapeen, but live and learn right? like i said im not as broken up about it like i was last time, im more dissapointed and mad at myself for letting myself be vunerable again

but hey there are other people out there im not too worried about it =P