[ Real life ] I hate it so much this is crap.

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Daroth

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I hate this shit you think you can trust someone then boom it just dissapears, I cant even trust my own now recently broken up with GF who I suspected of cheating on me and turns out she really was when I called her to talk about it she said she wantedto be friends like WQTF and what the hell is it with the fucking girls goiung for the ass holes with the so called "Bad boy" personna. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I could just inflict some sort of pain on some thing I hate this BS I cant get a GF unless I am rebound now or i they just want me for some "attention" and then just blow me off I hate it so much I wanna die I am so sick and tired of this BS! I wanna die.
 
I need something to keep me from just ugh I hate her, I make myself think I can start a new friendship and then boom her bf goes off and makes hell out of everything and then she plays dumb. I cant give myself to think about anything cause my mind will wnader back to this so its not best to play ffxi right now
 
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Ouch
Don't get involved with her anymore...
Besides, later on in life, the "Bad boys" will prolly be locked up
and also, later on in life, women tend to like the sweeter guyz more...
but at the teenage years, they like the bad boyz becuz they are rough, i guess to say...
so dont like get pissed over this, i have that done to me too, really pissed me off
1 minute she says she love me, next week, she says she justs wants to be friends...
women play games on us, if you havent noticed, the games are downright BS, but what are you going to do about it? We could play a game right back, but eventually get ourselves in so much shit, we swim in it
so its best to have patience, and maybe a girl who wont play games on you, or would rather go out with you for you, or whatever the cause may be, but just know that women like to play with your mind and emotions, and dont let your ego or your pride get the best of you on these situations, thats all we really need is more violence, violence doesnt solve anything....so just keep a cool head, and just forget about her man, you dont need shit from her...
 
Oni's right, man. Seriously...chicks in the 17-24 year-old bracket arent worth wasting your time with, which is unfortunate because finding that one girl thats right for you in your mid-late twenties is kinda late imo. I personally dont date to "date"...which kind of asses me out cuz that basically means I cant date. All the girls around my age are just looking to f@@k around and have fun without even giving thought to the word committment (and they say guys are bad about this?..pffft). Its a rarity to find a girl thats worth anything at all. Dude, your ex is nothing more than your trashy whore. Unfortunately, Im pretty much convinced that a good 3/4 of the girls out there are trash. Hell, even the girls that go to church Im finding are insanely superficial. How disheartening is THAT!? Ive personally almost given up all hope of a relationship anytime soon. Im sorry that those arent encouraging words, but thats my view of it. I could totally be under the wrong impression, but I think ur a chill guy (I dont use the word "great" cuz id feel fruity). But you're funny and easy to get along with....again, perhaps Im getting too much out of the few times we've talked, but its a feelin I get *shrugs*. So dude, I dunno what to tell you. For any women out there that think I'm wrong...well...Im talking from my own experiences, Oni's given his input and Daroth here is broken-hearted guy. So if you're NOT one of these whores Ive talked about...then be glad, ur a rare gem....if youre telling the truth.
 
Thanks guys... I am just getting so fed up with all this mindless BS I am being fed and all the good feelings i am promiced and then they are quickly pulled back and replaced with feelings of failiure and anger, I am trying to keep myself thinking stroight but it's turning my stomach to knots.
 
LOL, then go call that punk "badboy" out and punch him...and when hes done with and that whoire wants to get back with u, u can say..."naww bizotch, Im through with youuu!"....=p
 
I cant do that now, I probably would of but I have had the point addressed to me that I often end up over reacting like that. And I wanna avoid it.
 
I feel for you, Daroth. I tried dateing several times and got no where. I even tried internet dateing where you go to a service and talk to a girl through emails. Turned out that most were married or had a BF and was looking for a rich guy or something. This one chick I met off of one wanted to see where I lived right away and as soon as she saw my life style she was not interested anymore. Mind this girl was no prize either. Most women I don't understand. One guy I worked with came home and found his wife turned "gay" on him and divorced him for this other woman.
I wish you the best man. You are better off without her. Its her BIG LOSS.
 
LOL Daroth Daroth... Dont go starting up with Cale or whatever again. It aint worth it and fighting isnt gonna solve anything. Unless of course you win then by all means.

Maybe you should take a break from dating then. You have gone out with like 4 people in the last month. Sorry if I'm spouting your business here when I wasn't supposed to but you are seriously overreacting (course you never told me exactly what was up).

We all play games with one another and screw each other over. Even us so-called "nice guys". Me im manipulative as hell I found out :twisted: . It's not really intentional, just kinda finds its own outlet! So try out the "asshole" game. Try it from the other side. It can be fun sometimes and you can find a happy medium. Just give it some time, you'll feel better. "Time heals all wounds"
 
pseulen could not be more right about the age group :) ,
i, myself, took a different path at that age, but all my friends at that time went for the worst losers they could find (ugly too) . unless you want to treat girls like a total asshole and become very self-centered, you will have to just
hold out a few years. eventually the smart girls grow up and go for a guy who listens, cares and treats them well.
ironically im married now to the guy who treated me so well 15 years ago who i in turn back then treated like shit and went for a bad boy ;)

everything in life comes full circle, eventually. this girl who wronged you will
someday fall totally in love with someone who will, in turn (because he is a bad boy) will smash her heart underfoot without a second glance.

i hope this heps you just a little daroth, i hate to see one of my game friends
feeling so down :(
 
thank you guys. I really appreciate it. I will have alot of time to get my mind off things I think cause me and falkner are going camping for a bit to get rid of all the stress and crap before school starts again.

anyways thank you guys and girls.
 
Who cares really, statistically there are more women in this world than man, got trouble with one, go for another, not like there are none to choose from.
 
Awww...cmon Sculli...have a heart. He obviously put more heart and hope into this relationship than that chick did. Cmon, think back....way back, when u crushed or had a gf and got trampled under her....cmon....I know youve felt it....I WANNA TEARS U DORKUS! hehehe jk. :lol:
 
Tyrion said:
"Life is pain. Anyone who says differently is selling something."
-The Princess Bride.

Best...Movie...Ever, or at least close to it.

Girlfreinds come and go, I was in an eight month relationship not to long ago and of course it left an impression (more on her then me which i feel shitty about at times), but I'd think of your situation as a way to meet somone else not to become morose over. As a teacher that i have qualms w/ used to put it, "Pack up your troubles in your old kit bag" and find somone new. Shit happens, just got keep going.
 
hehe its funny to see many of these comments from a guys perspective cuz i find that most girls see men in much the same way as you guys see women....(players and such...)

But out of all of these "bad" individuals..........there is an incredible amount of wonderful people out there!!!! I dont think anyone should give up hope when finding that significant other........although taking a break from the whole dating game may be a wise decision.......

You gotta be patient with relationships too........i've gone thru many of my own, and with each failure i've found that I was stronger everytime i got over it........Its all a learning experience, and without knowing it...........that Perfect Girl willl just walk into your life and you'll be the happiest guy in the world!

asiamise said:
everything in life comes full circle, eventually. this girl who wronged you will
someday fall totally in love with someone who will, in turn (because he is a bad boy) will smash her heart underfoot without a second glance.

I totally believe in this!! And that is what is gonna end up happening to her.......
 
Kitana said:
You gotta be patient with relationships too.........
Nope, you sure don't have to be patient. If it doesn't work right away, chances are pretty good it never will, and any effort it totally wasted time.

Free yourself and try again, elsewhere.
 
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