i was the one that lotted on the astral aepis and won.
my thf was lvl 69 at the time.
my rdm is lvl 10, blm lvl 30, whm lvl 30, smn lvl 1, brd lvl 4
i plan to lvl my redmage after my thf, but thats not really why i lotted.
here is what happened and why i lotted.
a member of the rdm's pt sends me a tell saying their rdm forced their smn to pull Pelican. this was a lvl 69 pt with a pld btw. the smn did not want to pull but the rdm insisted and said that they could defeat the NM. well their pld dies, and then another member dies. their pt leader, which was a friend of mine, allianced my pt. All of a sudden i hear in /say "Alliance?" from a member in the other pt. It seems our help wasn't appreciated, maybe they thought they could kill the nm with 4 people and no tank? Pelican had over 50% hp when this happened, and their tank and one more was dead....
my pt came in and kicked Pelican's butt (the very next day we defeated Pelican again with everyone in my pt being the same lvl, we're a static). there was no prearranged aggrement on lot. we got no thankyous for saving the other pt's butts. all i heard was, "If you cannot use the shiled pass." this to me was rude and pissed me off.
Now my intention was to kill Pelican so one of the mages in my static could get the shield. I told my mages that if they won the lot I would pass lot, but if they lost to the other pt i would lot.
here are my reasons for my lotting on the item to recap.
1. My pt was not thanked for helping another PT out.
2. We had no aggreement on lotting.
3. I was told to pass impolietly.
4. My pt did the killing.
5. I will definately use the item in the future.
Now, here are reasons that would have prevented me from lotting...
1. My pt getting thanked for helping the other PT out.
2. If I was asked nicely by someone not lotting on the item to allow only mages to lot on item.
3. If my friend in the other pt stuck up for his ptmates and asked me to pass.
People who know me in game will know I am not greedy and like to help other people out. But they also know that I have zero tolerance for idiots and rude people. Not to say that the original poster is a rude person, but I felt that she was so worried bout getting the item instead of thanking everyone involved. I dont like to help people who dont appreciate the help....
anyway, now you know how to get along with me ^^