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I think she was on a flame before, couldnt find it and i didnt want to necro anyway. I just had a short run-in with this person on their RDM. Well Hardpride was the leader of our party, and our rdm DC and he replaced him with Severe. I remember reading on a flame about her, but meh just kept it to myself and hoped for the best.
Well really my only complain was she wouldnt keep me refreshed, so i asked politely if she could and she replied a bit offended "Dude im trying" or something like that, she told me she had filters on and couldnt see when it wore, so i said cool np ill let u know when it wears and that way we'll know how long it lasts (I know nothing about RDM). So i told her it wore off, and that it lasted exactly 2 minutes.
takes her another few minutes to cast, and then it wears off, and i just sit there waiting again. Low on MP and HP in the orange most of the time. So after about 5 mins of no refresh i look at her and i emote /sigh. I admite i may have come off a bit mean, but really i wasnt trying to and i wanted to help her, because that would benefit the whole party.
She reacts offended again, and is like "DUDE WHAT" or something, and i tell her nothing, i just still havent gotten refreshed, and she says things like "If im so horrible I can just go" or "You can go" im not sure, i have the screenshots i can post later if need be. I said multiple times that i wasnt trying to come off as ajerk, was just trying to help her play her job like everyone else was, and better the party overall.
Anyway, this is mostly just a warning shes not very easy to work with or to give constructive criticism to, hopefully she learns how to not take it personal, i dont think shes a bad person, just very defensive. She left the party then said "U r a horrible pally"
PS. After she quit the party, i apologized to the party members for inadvertantly making her leave, and hurting our exp. Then someone by the name of OmegaJoker spammed me a bunch of tells telling me im a terrible player and that hes better bcause hes 75 pld and what not, was pretty funny but maybe this is another idiot to look out for.
Well really my only complain was she wouldnt keep me refreshed, so i asked politely if she could and she replied a bit offended "Dude im trying" or something like that, she told me she had filters on and couldnt see when it wore, so i said cool np ill let u know when it wears and that way we'll know how long it lasts (I know nothing about RDM). So i told her it wore off, and that it lasted exactly 2 minutes.
takes her another few minutes to cast, and then it wears off, and i just sit there waiting again. Low on MP and HP in the orange most of the time. So after about 5 mins of no refresh i look at her and i emote /sigh. I admite i may have come off a bit mean, but really i wasnt trying to and i wanted to help her, because that would benefit the whole party.
She reacts offended again, and is like "DUDE WHAT" or something, and i tell her nothing, i just still havent gotten refreshed, and she says things like "If im so horrible I can just go" or "You can go" im not sure, i have the screenshots i can post later if need be. I said multiple times that i wasnt trying to come off as ajerk, was just trying to help her play her job like everyone else was, and better the party overall.
Anyway, this is mostly just a warning shes not very easy to work with or to give constructive criticism to, hopefully she learns how to not take it personal, i dont think shes a bad person, just very defensive. She left the party then said "U r a horrible pally"
PS. After she quit the party, i apologized to the party members for inadvertantly making her leave, and hurting our exp. Then someone by the name of OmegaJoker spammed me a bunch of tells telling me im a terrible player and that hes better bcause hes 75 pld and what not, was pretty funny but maybe this is another idiot to look out for.
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