I think she was on a flame before, couldnt find it and i didnt want to necro anyway. I just had a short run-in with this person on their RDM. Well Hardpride was the leader of our party, and our rdm DC and he replaced him with Severe. I remember reading on a flame about her, but meh just kept it to myself and hoped for the best.
Well really my only complain was she wouldnt keep me refreshed, so i asked politely if she could and she replied a bit offended "Dude im trying" or something like that, she told me she had filters on and couldnt see when it wore, so i said cool np ill let u know when it wears and that way we'll know how long it lasts (I know nothing about RDM). So i told her it wore off, and that it lasted exactly 2 minutes.
takes her another few minutes to cast, and then it wears off, and i just sit there waiting again. Low on MP and HP in the orange most of the time. So after about 5 mins of no refresh i look at her and i emote /sigh. I admite i may have come off a bit mean, but really i wasnt trying to and i wanted to help her, because that would benefit the whole party.
She reacts offended again, and is like "DUDE WHAT" or something, and i tell her nothing, i just still havent gotten refreshed, and she says things like "If im so horrible I can just go" or "You can go" im not sure, i have the screenshots i can post later if need be. I said multiple times that i wasnt trying to come off as ajerk, was just trying to help her play her job like everyone else was, and better the party overall.
Anyway, this is mostly just a warning shes not very easy to work with or to give constructive criticism to, hopefully she learns how to not take it personal, i dont think shes a bad person, just very defensive. She left the party then said "U r a horrible pally"
PS. After she quit the party, i apologized to the party members for inadvertantly making her leave, and hurting our exp. Then someone by the name of OmegaJoker spammed me a bunch of tells telling me im a terrible player and that hes better bcause hes 75 pld and what not, was pretty funny but maybe this is another idiot to look out for.
