so much for my happy birthday

Chasym

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well i was chipper all day and enjoying a good laugh watching my home made cribs video with my little brother and his friends, when i got some news

Onceover said:
Hey all,

Our best friend and manager Shawn Jeffords, who we (and many) love greatly has slipped into a coma from his health complications, and unfortunatley the outcome doesn't look too good. We ask you keep him and his family in your thoughts and prayers during this time......While our hearts are extremely sore, it's his wife, daughter, and immediate family that need the support. When we figure out what to do we will let you all know. Feel free to ask any questions.

Love,
OnceOver

I was just at his house a week and a half ago, he seemed completley fine, he looked as if he had made a great recovery from his past complications and was laughing and having a good time with me as we worked on his xbox frustratingly for hours.
Sadly our attempts ended in failure and i promised to get a little more research into the subject and come back this next weekend and crack at it again, he handed me a 10 for gas for making the trip and i said goodbye.
it seems now it was my last goodbye and that pizza and halo party i was gonna have with him once he felt recovered enough to do so will not happen.
This is the guy who walked up to me as a stranger with a laptop at one of my first local music shows and introduced me as the playing bands manager...and we became good friends.
He got me jobs working on websites for other bands, and even some of his bands. Then when his main band kicked him to the curb, he handed me the reigns as he moved on to the next talent.

We would chat for hours about technology and upcoming programs that were going to be so cool, and he would let me listen to his bands unreleased music, which was a privledge because he said I was in "The circle" and that meant, me, him and the band, and they always wanted my opinion.
Im never going to log online and read "hey, check this out its the new track! drums are being recorded tomorrow!"
He was saved by a miracle on his death bed last year....God help me a miracle pulls through for him now. Please keep him in your prayers tonight as i will be, and if you dont pray, please keep him and his family in your thoughts.

This man was a good hearted man, always helping people, never once saw the man get angry, ive heard him peeved but never angry.
He fought for his wife when her life was coming short, and raised benefit concerts and much more, without any worry about his own conditions. And it saved her life, they fought to save each others lives together over these past couple years and now it seems that he may have fallen.
happy birthday to me.
 
I'm sorry to hear that Chasym. I can't really comment on the situation except extend my condolences. :-\
 
i just dont get it really, soon as everything is good and it seems things are clearing up, i get taken right back down a notch but i can take being taken down a notch in any way really, but why the hell has it just feeling like im being surrounded by death anymore. i cant sleep, havent slept in 2 days because ive been working alot, but now i just keep thinking about shawn and his family. meh this stuff just has to stop
 
Dude, stick your head in the dirt and don't look up for three weeks. Maybe then something nice will happen to you.
 
seriously man its like life has been holding your nose and force feeding you one shit sandwhich after another and washing it down with a vomit and rotten egg smoothie

hang in there man, i know it seems dire but there always is a light at the end of the tunnel <3
 
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