PS: This is quite long, so thanks if you are reading all of it! 
Well, I'm not one to flame people on a constant basis, but to people this week-end, including Solotac really really got me pissed.
First off, for those who don't know me well, I try to keep a good reputation on the server by being the best player I can be in parties and helping out in any possible way to improve an exp session. I also try very hard to keep the spirit of everybody up so we all enjoy our time together. Not to say that I am better then anyone, but I think so far I have succeded in keeping that reputation pretty good.
So, this week-end, I was not planning on leveling DRK too much as I wanted to do other stuff I have been putting back for to long. But I do get a tell from someone (Krisalis, very nice person by the way and you did put a hell of a party together, the original one!! ) asking me to join a party. So I join in and we head out to quicksand caves. We're actually doing very well pulling chain 4 and 5 consistantly (boy I love having a RDM in arty
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But every good thing must come to an end and our tank, Essock (very good, never lost aggro) has to leave but has the courtesy to find a replacement. Not gonna name him/her but things started going bad at this point. Tank could not hold aggro and went afk for 15-20 minutes without saying anything, while we were fighting a spider. After waiting and calling him for 20 minutes, we decide to ditch him.
So now comes the bad part :? Another member d/c and did not come back, so we invited a sam that was next to us, GRIDDLECAKE. I know Krisalis is looking for a replacement tank and I decide I should help her out and start looking. I see SOLOTAC in Horlais Peek, but decided to ask him anyway, as there was absolutely no one else at the time. Solotac agrees and our whm agrees to go all the way there to meet him and teleport him back in the caves.
Now after he joined and got tele-ported, he mentions he was 250 exp away from 50 as he just died (party was 47-48) and that he would get back in regular gear once he got his level back..... now, I'm just saying, but should'nt that have been mentionned when I first asked you to join our party????
Anyway, now Griddlecake (who was really annoying from the start, running around all the time and just talking and talking and talking....) suggests we try to west entrance of the caves, since the tank is almost 50. Agreed and we head out. Griddle is leading the way and just rushing through the desert and laughing at everyone who was asking for sneak, so we end up loosing a lot of time fighting every aggro we get.
We finally make it to the entrance and of course, Griddle starts heading down the stairs..... and 2 IT Anticans attack us. Solotac (PLD) never voked any of them, so I attacked the link alone, yelling people to zone. Of course I die. Whm goes down next and again, Solotac never voked it off him and I know it was up, since he had not used it previously. My guess, he was still in low level armor and did not want to die. Too bad tho cause he dies next as well and the rest of the party makes it to the zone.
Now, Griddlecake starts blamming the whm for not casting sneak on everybody. At this point, I've had enough and politely tells Griddle not to blame anyone but himself, since HE was the one who rushed here and had the whm spend all his mp on fights to get here and HE was the one who got aggroed from the 2 Anticans. HE was also the one that laughed at us for wanting Sneak in the first place. I also send a tell to Solotac apologizing for Griddle's behaviour saying we invited both at the same time and did not know he was such an ass.
So rdm comes out and raise, gets aggro and dies. Whm comes out and raise everyone and we are in the cave. 2 fights later, we get a chest key. Griddle immediately says he needs it for Sam AF and tell everyone (not ask) to pass on it. He may needs it, but who's to say others in the party do not need it to. But I don't care, he can have it, I'm not in the mood to argue. Well Solotac was, he immediatly lot on the key and both he and Griddlecake starts arguing like childs for 5-10 minutes. Names are called and such (I did not jum in the arguement by the way!) and well I am holding my head with both hands, Solotac leaves the party without a warning.
Griddle continues to complain and all so I excuse myself to the leader and say that I have had enough and that I am sorry, but I will leave the party. If she wants me to find a replacement, that's fine. She says not to worry and that she is sorry it turned out that bad, even if the original party really really rocked!!!!
I wanna point out that she also told me after that Griddlecake apologized for his behaviour. SO I guess it makes out for it a bit.
But as soon as I warp to Jeuno and in my mog house, I get a tell from Solotac saying: You're all DICKHEADS and blablabla. :shock: I ask him why the fuck he calls me a Dick for? I'm not to one who was arguing with him over a stupid key!! He says you're the leader, it's your party therefor you're the head dick! :shock: I was never leader!!!! Yes I asked him, but I was not leader. So he starts whinning about how he got insulted and called names after he died for this party and calls me name again. First off, you died because you showed up in low-level gear and you're an idiot. Second, you died because the other idiot rushed through the desert. Third, I say check your log, when did I ever called you name??? NEVER!!!! So basically now, I am taking the heat in place of Griddlecake.
What pisses me off is that Solotac probably ranted about me to his LS or firends or mom or whoever because of HIS attitude and GRIDDLECAKE's attitude. I really don't aprreciate being called dick or ass or whatever, especially if I had nothing to do with the situation in the first place!!!
So Solotac... KISS MY SWEET LITTLE TUSHIE!!!!! I hope you keep dying till you delevel to 48 (which will probably happen).
thanks for listening!
Well, I'm not one to flame people on a constant basis, but to people this week-end, including Solotac really really got me pissed.
First off, for those who don't know me well, I try to keep a good reputation on the server by being the best player I can be in parties and helping out in any possible way to improve an exp session. I also try very hard to keep the spirit of everybody up so we all enjoy our time together. Not to say that I am better then anyone, but I think so far I have succeded in keeping that reputation pretty good.
So, this week-end, I was not planning on leveling DRK too much as I wanted to do other stuff I have been putting back for to long. But I do get a tell from someone (Krisalis, very nice person by the way and you did put a hell of a party together, the original one!! ) asking me to join a party. So I join in and we head out to quicksand caves. We're actually doing very well pulling chain 4 and 5 consistantly (boy I love having a RDM in arty
But every good thing must come to an end and our tank, Essock (very good, never lost aggro) has to leave but has the courtesy to find a replacement. Not gonna name him/her but things started going bad at this point. Tank could not hold aggro and went afk for 15-20 minutes without saying anything, while we were fighting a spider. After waiting and calling him for 20 minutes, we decide to ditch him.
So now comes the bad part :? Another member d/c and did not come back, so we invited a sam that was next to us, GRIDDLECAKE. I know Krisalis is looking for a replacement tank and I decide I should help her out and start looking. I see SOLOTAC in Horlais Peek, but decided to ask him anyway, as there was absolutely no one else at the time. Solotac agrees and our whm agrees to go all the way there to meet him and teleport him back in the caves.
Now after he joined and got tele-ported, he mentions he was 250 exp away from 50 as he just died (party was 47-48) and that he would get back in regular gear once he got his level back..... now, I'm just saying, but should'nt that have been mentionned when I first asked you to join our party????
Anyway, now Griddlecake (who was really annoying from the start, running around all the time and just talking and talking and talking....) suggests we try to west entrance of the caves, since the tank is almost 50. Agreed and we head out. Griddle is leading the way and just rushing through the desert and laughing at everyone who was asking for sneak, so we end up loosing a lot of time fighting every aggro we get.
We finally make it to the entrance and of course, Griddle starts heading down the stairs..... and 2 IT Anticans attack us. Solotac (PLD) never voked any of them, so I attacked the link alone, yelling people to zone. Of course I die. Whm goes down next and again, Solotac never voked it off him and I know it was up, since he had not used it previously. My guess, he was still in low level armor and did not want to die. Too bad tho cause he dies next as well and the rest of the party makes it to the zone.
Now, Griddlecake starts blamming the whm for not casting sneak on everybody. At this point, I've had enough and politely tells Griddle not to blame anyone but himself, since HE was the one who rushed here and had the whm spend all his mp on fights to get here and HE was the one who got aggroed from the 2 Anticans. HE was also the one that laughed at us for wanting Sneak in the first place. I also send a tell to Solotac apologizing for Griddle's behaviour saying we invited both at the same time and did not know he was such an ass.
So rdm comes out and raise, gets aggro and dies. Whm comes out and raise everyone and we are in the cave. 2 fights later, we get a chest key. Griddle immediately says he needs it for Sam AF and tell everyone (not ask) to pass on it. He may needs it, but who's to say others in the party do not need it to. But I don't care, he can have it, I'm not in the mood to argue. Well Solotac was, he immediatly lot on the key and both he and Griddlecake starts arguing like childs for 5-10 minutes. Names are called and such (I did not jum in the arguement by the way!) and well I am holding my head with both hands, Solotac leaves the party without a warning.
Griddle continues to complain and all so I excuse myself to the leader and say that I have had enough and that I am sorry, but I will leave the party. If she wants me to find a replacement, that's fine. She says not to worry and that she is sorry it turned out that bad, even if the original party really really rocked!!!!
I wanna point out that she also told me after that Griddlecake apologized for his behaviour. SO I guess it makes out for it a bit.
But as soon as I warp to Jeuno and in my mog house, I get a tell from Solotac saying: You're all DICKHEADS and blablabla. :shock: I ask him why the fuck he calls me a Dick for? I'm not to one who was arguing with him over a stupid key!! He says you're the leader, it's your party therefor you're the head dick! :shock: I was never leader!!!! Yes I asked him, but I was not leader. So he starts whinning about how he got insulted and called names after he died for this party and calls me name again. First off, you died because you showed up in low-level gear and you're an idiot. Second, you died because the other idiot rushed through the desert. Third, I say check your log, when did I ever called you name??? NEVER!!!! So basically now, I am taking the heat in place of Griddlecake.
What pisses me off is that Solotac probably ranted about me to his LS or firends or mom or whoever because of HIS attitude and GRIDDLECAKE's attitude. I really don't aprreciate being called dick or ass or whatever, especially if I had nothing to do with the situation in the first place!!!
So Solotac... KISS MY SWEET LITTLE TUSHIE!!!!! I hope you keep dying till you delevel to 48 (which will probably happen).
thanks for listening!