You missed the point. Not by your own fault, but simply by not being a member of our LS.
We try and stay away from the whole gear-bragging deal, because it IS a social LS. Alot of the members don't have alot of time to play, or just play for fun, and will never see any of the endgame gear that others have attained. If someone lands a god-piece or whatever, then we congratulate them. No harm done. But when people keep talking about their gear and how they're 5/5 AF2 and blah blah blah, it gets disheartening for the other members who have worked so hard, but dedicate themselves to helping other LS members than joining a Sky LS. Its been a policy that they have stuck by for ages, and it is pretty well-known to all members.
Actually, this isn't any policy I was ever aware of. It's funny how some people can go on and on, excited, happy about accomplishments in this game. Nothing wrong with excitement it seems, I've seen everyone exhibit it. But let it be excitement, over something most the ls does not have, or will not attain. Then, all the sudden it is bragging, and no one cares to hear it, and it should be cut out. That, is by far the biggest thing that pissed me off about TBH...certain members chose what others can be excited over, simply because, they don't have yet, or choose another path in the game, that doesn't allow them to have said accomplishment.
As for Myrrh not being trustworthy. I truly felt this big time, when he joined TBH. But ya know, his ACTIONS, spoke loudly otherwise. He turned out to be a cool dude, who always liked to help. He has a twisted sense of humor at times, not my taste, but that has nothing to do with his ability to be trusted. He also has pull, like in this case, to get people out there to kill a NM. He uses that pull at times, to help others, and probably would have done so for Soulstar...now we'll never know. I truly am disappointed in Soulstar.
As for the leadership of TBH, they were not there at the camp, and sounds like they did not have all the facts. Zer and Xean, on countless times, have exhibited selfishness, generosity, and quality leadership for this social ls. Sounds like miscommunication, and pour but genuine intentions to make sure Soulstar was not getting screwed, lead to Ninjalotting, and bashing of Myrrh to justify it.
But all the miscommunication aside, all the trying to push TBH leadership into a corner aside....it boils down to one thing. YOU are responsible for your actions Soulstar, YOU pressed the lot button, when you knew the only reason the NM was killed was because people came, to help Myrrh get his robe. YOU made the poor choice, and it is you Soulstar, who will have to deal with the heat. Step up, and speak up...what you did can not be condoned, but only understanding, can help you save face at this point.