I was actually making fun of proph for flee hacking, had nothing to do with you.
I wasn't upset because I died, I had already died and HP'd in that party before. It was because when I hp'd the last time, I was booted. When I asked why, i got "i didn't know you were coming back", when in fact, I had already returned, i think i even died twice and returned both times. I got a kick out of knowing I never had to rest with 40+ mobs on me.
As for the part about me PL'n myself. WHM is an easy job, just like every other job, if I don't "learn" the "skills" now, I'll learn it next pt. I had just died in a different xp party, and didn't want the same to happen. He was going to be my cure bomb guy.
When I pl on my WHM i target the tank and put cure 3 ready to be cast and just hit X when needed.
I could pick up a LV 75 WHM right now and have it down to an exact science in under an hour of XP, I already did it with BRD, did it with PLD, and did it with WAR. The game mechanics are simple, and if one actually pays attention in their PTs they should know every jobs role and what needs to be done.