ok the second post was the wife

"ok now Baybeebroon's turn" <-
1) you didn't curse him or put him down? wrong, just lies. He asked for someone to help him get his test. You started harassing him, saying if he can't solo ruby quadav at 66, he can't beat maat, go do it yourself. Apart from the fact he didn't ask for your advice on where to get it, or how to get it, or when to fight maat, it's just rude.
2) He has never helped me? What about the BCNM's he did with you WITHOUT an orb? Where was his gain from that? There wasn't one, he HELPED you. He didn't say "i don't think you should do this BCNM, you fail at getting drops." THAT is our beef with you.
You attacked him in linkshell when all he asked for was someone to help him get a test. Then you continued to blast him about it when he told you he's not fighting maat now, he just needs his test. THEN you flame him on QCDN because 5 people + the leader of the linkshell wanted you out?
3) A non member? Myself, Baybeebroon and Dipichipi are all members of Darkemblem, get your facts straight #2.
The only twisting going on here is from you pumpkin, advice is helpful when asked for, not in response to a request for help in a brash and offensive manner. "Can you help me?" --> "No, if i helped you, you would lose to maat because you're not good enough or high enough, and so i'd be wasting my time doing this, go solo a ruby quadav."
You beginning to understand now?