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You must spend a lot of your time in the flameboard if you think there is a lot of negativity floating around this game. Visit the link above and you will find an abundance of things that make this game a lot of fun. Is there bound to be some negativity when dealing with other people? Yeah. Especially when you've been chatting with them for well over 2 years now...yeah. Do I find really anything in this game overly upsetting, nope! Do the people who play this game sometimes upset me, hell yeah.
Just like when someone does something to help you out or something nice in the game you get a little excited/happy, why's it different when someone does something negative to you? Anything anyone works hard at has the potential to either a) make you smile or b) upset you.
And yes something depressing and actually being depressed are two totally different ball games. The fact that about 90% of the people in calgary can't drive is depressing - however this does not make me depressed.