I would hardly say I have not worked hard to get where I am. I bust my ass as a RDM to ensure I do my job to the very best of my ability and meet a pt's expectations and needs of my position. I will not however take anyones crap. If complaints come my way, unvalidated with little to no explaination without even the slightest attemp perhaps at pointing out a mistake, I will drop a pt. I give enough warning.
In noway do I think a few refreshes here and there or a Cure tossed makes up for the exp gained in a pt, that's NOT holding one's own in any means. I at the worst of times will still toss debuffs, buffs, cures, refreshes and w/e else I may think will assist my pt at anyone time. Often taking a risk at losing too much mp, but that's the job. I have spoke highly of a RDM job, it's a tough one, a fast one with high demands but tons of pay off, and if one can do this job well.. THAT'S the pay off.