like I was telling rdm friend of mine rdm can be played many different way. For example I'm a better equip for enfeebles, while my friend better equip of healing, I normally refer it as offensive rdm, and defensive rdm. You also having a whm tend to like heal more making you more defensive, you prob wearing alot of mp+ gear and mnd. I on other hand love to pull, enfeb, and ocassional nuke I go all out on int, mnd, and enfeb skill. That not to say I cant heal when time come for it, but if I had a choice I like offensive magic better.