I wouldn't say he meant he didn't want to hurt me. Just not seriously hurt me. I'M BRUISED DUDE! The first time I did the deed with him it didn't hurt at all. Which is odd to me seeing as we had no lube and just used... spit. But the time after that it hurt like hell for a long time during the session. It's slowly getting easier and I'm more comfortable with him each time we do it.
Slapping pain is different to the pain you get from biting or being pinned etc. I dunno, the sound of SLAP SLAP is awful to me also hah. THIS IS WELL AWKWARD. This is one of them odd skype convos we have that only happen on the odd off occasion. NOT ON A PUBLIC VISITOR BOARD.