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In Gonzalez's case, his wife, Mildred, came to the United States with her mother in 1989 when she was 5 years old. They were granted political asylum because of their status as war refugees from Guatemala.
In September 2000, Mildred's mother applied for legalization and included her daughter in that application. Her mother was granted legal status in July 2004, according to Gonzalez.
However, six weeks earlier, Gonzalez and Mildred got married, canceling Mildred's ability to apply for legal status through her mother because she was no longer an unmarried daughter under the age of 21. As a result, her legal status still remains in jeopardy.
And a father also shouldn't have to worry about his terminally ill daughter either, but it happens.
There's one difference though, the deportation is directly a result of neglect to follow the proper immigration laws, whereas a father of a terminally ill child holds no responsibility to being the cause of the families problems with the exception of a genetic mutation that can't be controlled. Being military personnel doesn't put you above the law of the land. Just as he can't come home and rob a bank, he also is subject to the immigration laws of the land.
The biggest thing I see in this story, is that the woman had a chance to apply for legality in the US, but got married and therefore made it void. If you move here when you are young, that's fine, because it's mainly guided by a parental influence. However, if that same parent does not take the time and effort involved in becoming a legal citizen of the United States, then yes, they deserve to be deported.
"I screwed my wife over from becoming lega, and now I have to take responsibility for it."
Its not heartwarming, but as in everything, prior planning prevents piss poor performance. This could have been a much different story had they held off on the marriage plans until citizenship was granted on the current application.