On the subject at hand
Villarel said:
If I knew Kisada was pulling Narish to xp area, I would have told my PT to get the fuck out of there.
And yes I did /tell Kisada ingame.
But I was in a mood today, and wanted to post some flames.
It is obvious your pt was aware that he had pulled it, or the RDM wouldn't cured him. Furthermore, because it was the action of member in your pt that caused you all to die, this flame is unwarranted.
I agree that if you endanger another group by pulling a NM within their aggro range that you should warn them, when we pulled Ungur past a pt we let them know to be careful after wiping b/c our tank died during the pull and he was headed back their way (you were there Villarel... you saw us dead, and when you went to get the gob for the o.bow, i am sure you saw the pt there still alive). However, he did what he needed to do to keep you safe, that is, he stayed far enough away from you all to keep you from getting aggroed... where is the fault in his actions here then?
Definitions and Flame Etiquette
The understood definition of MPK is to
"intentionally kill someone else with a monster", which, even if it had been Kisada's fault that you and your RDM died, is not the case here.
Flames are fine, they happen... i think the most offensive thing to those of us in Ascension, and the reason you got such a large response from us, is that you brought back a flame that had been closed by
the person who started it rather then starting your own. The issue presented in this thread had been resolved, but you have brought it back up along with yours. Generally... when a new issues comes up they are given a fresh thread, Hell... there were like 3 "i hate gil sellers" threads on the first page alone for one time. Why then piggy back on another thread that has been dead for a long time, unless you want the past argument to help further your case that members of our shell are asshats? Meh, you said that it was probably incorrect to bring up new grievances on an old thread, so whatever.
On Courtesy
It is not courteous, since you choose to lecture some people on the subject and claim that our shell and its members lack this quality, to accuse someone of something they didn't do... Or, in this case, tell a biased and hyperbolized story about an event that happened, intending to cause someone who was without fault to look bad, simply because you feel like it.
Your post was not a flame, but rather libel.
Apologies
Svina said:
Give it up. Asking for a simple thing like an apology is beyond their capabilities, for apparently they are too advanced for us to say 2 words, one being a contraction ^^b.
/struts away.
Villarel didn't ask for an apology, and it sounds like Villarel and Kisada had talked in game anyway... As for it being beyond
our abilities, would an apology from anyone other then Kisada who was the person involved with the even mean anything? hmmm...
Villarel said:
Oh, and in my shell. The #1 rule is to treat everyone with respect(especially with people outside the shell).
Instead of saying that my shell is a good shell, I (as leader) would have apologized on behalf of my members. Since their actions are reflective of me.
*sorry for the back to back post*
I don't know, perhaps to Villarel it would but many people do not care for apologies by proxy. That said I am not disinclined to apologize on behalf of my members, i have done so in the past. If it were the fault of my member i would do so now, but if I were to type out an apology for what actually happened I would sound like a sarcastic poo-head, so I won't.
Finishing up
on a final note about respect, our shell has such a value as well, although it is broken in some cases because of personal feuds (just look down a few posts to see one such instance... /sigh).
(meh... I hate end of term... even responses to a flame come out like an essay '-';; )