Admitting that if you have a problem with us, which we know you do but face it we are not mind readers and neither are you so we don't know exactly what it is. You should discuss it with us, instead of figuring we don't need to be involved in something we are very much involved in anyways, because we care for you and love you. Then instead deciding you need to break up and see other people and decide if you should be with us or not, while at the same time ostracizing us from any semblance of the role we used to play in your life and that somehow is able to make a better decision (I want to find out if I want you or someone else, or a relationship at all, but while I'm looking around at other guys, you can not be part of that decision....and that makes sense, maybe...). After we (guy) fix one of the biggest issues after we break up, without you even mentioning what the real problem is yet, you get confused, but still don't give us a chance to really fix it with you, because you need more space now that I'm fixing the problems....
I'd do that, it can be done out of the house, i suppose.