Exactly why you’re a piece of trash. You have apparently have decided that:
Your time is somehow is far more valuable then 5 other peoples because you walk around with what's basically a Forager's Mantle with one extra STR on your back and otherwise average ninja gear. Oh ya, it has enmity too. Too bad you lost all hate after 1 rampage making it pointless anyway. It also just shows how sad you really are that you have put on your defender ring, just for a screen shot, when obviously only a stupid ninja would merit in it. So what? I have a Shadow Mantle, doesn't mean I'm going to merit with it on my rdm to flex some sort of e-penis I think I have.
You lack the decent common courtesy to leave a party with some class. The fact that it was not a great party is not in dispute. Who are you to judge whether it was not "worthy" for any other ninja. (My personal belief is that you were just too god damn lazy, much like your game play). I got 4 merits in 3 hours so for me it was better then hanging out in my mog house that particular night with nothing else to do. And 4 other people felt that way.
Any dipshit, like you have clearly demonstrated, can be become a despised player. The true elite in this game are the ones who are most respected in the ffxi community. You sir will never know what it is to be truely elite.