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Helius

Helius

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So I just got back home after watching the movie for the second time and played some parts of the movie through my head and a lot of it relates to my current status with someone I'm in a relationship with. They love to be around me, though others push her to the edge and push me away. So in the run, I need to deal with it. Quoting the movie "I see now what it is I have to become" to have things work out. My care for her is enough that I'm up for the ability to do what it takes to see her smile (not to cut her mouth) and to know she's happy. We've had a good run so far and have only dealt with this problem twice, first was from an over dose of each other and now is because of some jealous friends and the 'curious' ones. They can't leave us alone and it's pissing her off to the point she no longer wants to even go to church since they go. It's a fairly complicated ordeal and I just found it ironic that I love the movie, the movie title, my job in FFXI, and my need to fulfill that role in real life now. Things happen in weird ways.
 
Helius said:
So I just got back home after watching the movie for the second time and played some parts of the movie through my head and a lot of it relates to my current status with someone I'm in a relationship with. They love to be around me, though others push her to the edge and push me away. So in the run, I need to deal with it. Quoting the movie "I see now what it is I have to become" to have things work out. My care for her is enough that I'm up for the ability to do what it takes to see her smile (not to cut her mouth) and to know she's happy. We've had a good run so far and have only dealt with this problem twice, first was from an over dose of each other and now is because of some jealous friends and the 'curious' ones. They can't leave us alone and it's pissing her off to the point she no longer wants to even go to church since they go. It's a fairly complicated ordeal and I just found it ironic that I love the movie, the movie title, my job in FFXI, and my need to fulfill that role in real life now. Things happen in weird ways.
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The best relationship advice I ever got was when I was 19 years old, and it was from a 50-year-old man, while I was griping to him about being done wrong by some chick.

"It must just suck balls to be 19 years old."


Irrelevant to your situation, I know. I just don't get what you're talking about entirely.
 
Sounds like her friends are pestering her and you about your relationship? I hate to say it but girls can be mean and don't like to see one better off than them. It may be like you said that they are just jealous. I'm not sure what you would have to do in this situation. You can't make them stop and honestly they aren't great friends if they are acting like that just because they are jealous. I'm guessing from what you posted that you are unsure if you being with her is what would make her happy? It probably depends if she wants to keep those friends or not. I hope that you figure out something.
 
Stine said:
Sounds like her friends are pestering her and you about your relationship? I hate to say it but girls can be mean and don't like to see one better off than them. It may be like you said that they are just jealous. I'm not sure what you would have to do in this situation. You can't make them stop and honestly they aren't great friends if they are acting like that just because they are jealous. I'm guessing from what you posted that you are unsure if you being with her is what would make her happy? It probably depends if she wants to keep those friends or not. I hope that you figure out something.
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Yeah just look at Morwen and Linh ; ;

I've actually had this situation twice in relationships. First one just didn't end well, while the second one we learned to ignore her and avoid her as much as we could til she stopped. But that may not always work, hopefully it gets better for you, Good luck~.
P.S. I loved the movie too.
 
Well, we realized. We're just friends for a while until we get the school thing situated. We can't afford the emotion of us and others affecting our life right now, so we're gonna get settled and take things back up once we get other things squared away. Bleh, I know she's gonna have a hard time adjusting to it since we've tried it before so we didn't seem like we were dating and it failed, bad. lol
 
I just saw The Dark Knight . It was even better than I expected. Most of the comment is about Heath Ledger. He is no longer with us, but his performance in this film is everlasting. The film's storyline has many twists and all are rewarding, the story is developed constantly after each scene, making you wonder what's next. Excellent craft and flows well towards the conclusion. I liked this film very much.
 
Justinp said:
Yeah just look at Morwen and Linh ; ;

I've actually had this situation twice in relationships. First one just didn't end well, while the second one we learned to ignore her and avoid her as much as we could til she stopped. But that may not always work, hopefully it gets better for you, Good luck~.
P.S. I loved the movie too.
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bolded for lawls. :P
 
Helius said:
So I just got back home after watching the movie for the second time and played some parts of the movie through my head and a lot of it relates to my current status with someone I'm in a relationship with. They love to be around me, though others push her to the edge and push me away. So in the run, I need to deal with it. Quoting the movie "I see now what it is I have to become" to have things work out. My care for her is enough that I'm up for the ability to do what it takes to see her smile (not to cut her mouth) and to know she's happy. We've had a good run so far and have only dealt with this problem twice, first was from an over dose of each other and now is because of some jealous friends and the 'curious' ones. They can't leave us alone and it's pissing her off to the point she no longer wants to even go to church since they go. It's a fairly complicated ordeal and I just found it ironic that I love the movie, the movie title, my job in FFXI, and my need to fulfill that role in real life now. Things happen in weird ways.
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Dude, you're far out left field in lala land.
 
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