I did read your post but it was highly contradictory;
Prior to marriage he's single is what I got from that. Being in a relation ship for 23 years but single? No, he was in a relationship, not single.
That wasn't even close to 'biting your head off'. That was me saying that he was in a relationship. They were together for 23 years before marriage, cheating is cheating. If his wife comes out saying that they didn't have a monogamous relationship, then that's different, but I doubt that's the case. He just comes across as a whore who can't keep his pants on with his female associates. He may have 'told the truth' but it took extortion to get it out of him.
I'm not going to clarify what I've said because I've said it more than once. You can "doubt that's the case" all you want, but you don't know. I disagree. Period. But have fun roasting the guy. I'll just reserve judgement on someone before all the facts are clear. We'll see if he ends up in divorce court in a month.