Mielle said:
Did you bother to read what I wrote at all???
Get out more. What you took such great offense to is completely normal interaction in this game. I'd suggest desensitizing yourself a bit. People should not have to walk on eggshells around you or anyone to avoid "rubbing you the wrong way" with *normal behavior*. NINs requesting regular haste is normal. NINs - or anyone - requesting regular cures is not. Don't equate the two, and certainly don't blow up for a NIN requesting haste.
When people say to a WHM "buffs after this fight" (this is something you might've learned if you'd had more pickup parties), it means that they don't want you to interrupt curing and/or risk yourself in AOE to run in and protectra while the mob is still alive. And "buffs after this fight" is also an instructiont to the puller: it means the puller will wait for protectra after the fight rather than run off (which consequently saves you the MP of having to use single-target protect separately upon their return). In other words, get this: it's a *courtesy* to you. And you blew up at that too, because you took it as being ordered around.
And then after spouting completely unnecessary attitude for having been "rubbed the wrong way" despite that none of that was actually offensive in the slightest ... you got miffed when your own attitude was thrown back in your face (or more accurately Bjbreeze requested that he not have to hear it again), when - after all the "I know my job don't tell me what to do" stuff - you made a small and forgivable error and missed a few Hastes. Your attitude wasn't thrown in your face then, it was thrown in your face when you tried to use that same "I know my job" to deny your own error. At this point not only are you being an ass about it, but you're being an ass to deny your own fault.
And I know this may come as a shock to you, but usually when people do things like that ...
Get ready for it ...
*SOMEONE CALLS THEM ON IT*.
So what do you when you're called on your error and have your attitude thrown in your face? Obviously the most mature reaction: you warp and abandon not only the person you were arguing with, but four unrelated people, after a good party that was getting all six of you good exp. And not only do you abandon them, but you abandon them with no warning, and you abandon them in the middle of aggro enemies rather than at least saying "look, I can't stand putting up with this any more, and I'm going to leave - do you want an escape or tele before I go?". Never mind that you really had no reason to leave in the first place, there's certainly no reason to add insult to injury and leave them in a dangerous place too.
Sorry, but that behavior is not excused by "some people rubbing you the wrong way". The final warping out alone is, like, *really* bad for your reputation. Especially since you did it because of having your own attitude thrown in your face, rather than any reason even remotely approaching being a good excuse. (I'm honestly quite surprised nobody else has been harping on the warping at the end.)
Desensitize yourself and get out more so that you know how other people typically behave in parties and don't automatically assume everything is a slight against you, when it might well be perfectly normal behavior. And even if you *are* slighted (for real or just in your own perception of things), react maturely. People should not have to walk on eggshells and suck up to you when addressing you so that you don't flip out on them. And come on, just how old are you that you'd do such an immature thing as warping away from the situation rather than actually taking the criticism. Especially since in this case it was *deserved* criticism.
Sure, statics are good, you get to know the people and you work really well together and know how each other works and get good exp and have a lot of fun. But on the other hand it's like living in a sheltered family life and being homeschooled. One of these days you have to step out into the real world and deal with real people who won't know and probably won't care to adjust their behavior just to avoid "rubbing you the wrong way". The world isn't gonna change for you, so instead you just grow a thicker skin to change for it. The longer you put that off, the harder the adjustment is. I'm not saying to dissolve your static but I am saying you should spend more time interacting with strangers so you know what to expect from them and don't get all offended over nothing.
And never, ever, abandon a party for no reason again. That is quite simply, just low.
P.S. You just had a *bard* tell you not to be a primadonna.