I can fault them. If they knew they were taking a zone someone else had planned for the last month, and they still went along with it, your friends are douchebags.
First off, my friend was in the half of Persistence that fell apart, not the half that became "ThatJustHappened". So don't think I'm defending him here... If he was in that shell, I would have indeed pestered him about it. But even if he was, it's the leaders of the shell that make the decisions to ignore scheduling and jack a zone, not the members. Do me a favor, and put yourself in the shoes of the lower members of the shell for a second...
You are in an endgame shell on Midgard, where there is no such thing as Dynamis scheduling. Yeah, you know they bot HNMs, but you choose to just deal with it because you know that basically EVERY HNM shell bots, and you want HNM gear, so you put aside your ethical beliefs and just let them do their thing while you collect the loot. You refuse to run the bot, but you stay in the shell because they are effective at getting drops.
Now this same shell does Dynamis, and you are required to go with them to stay in the shell (very common in endgame shells). We all move to Quetz, and you go about attending Dynamis with your shell as you always have. You aren't a leader, maybe you don't even know there IS such a thing as a Dynamis schedule on this server, because (not being a leader) you never bothered to investigate it. Your shell leaders ignore this schedule, and just take whatever zone they want. Not knowing that the scheduling even exists, you don't even know that they are doing anything "wrong" in the eyes of others. They are just doing the same thing they have done all along on Midgard. Now, someone on Quetz that is annoyed by the fact that the schedule is being ignored by a "rogue" shell from Midgard, posts a list of people that were in that Dynamis zone. Your name is on the list.
You now catch flack from people you don't even know, for something you had no control over, and didn't even know was considered wrong.
So let me ask you. Who's the douchebag now? The shell member that was just going along with his shell, and doing what was asked of him by its leaders? Or the guy that called him out on a public messageboard for something he didn't even know was "bad"?
I am no longer a leader of a Dynamis shell, but back when I was, I did sign up on this messageboard right after they announced the merge, mostly because of the scheduling system. If you refer to my very first posts on this board, you'll see that I was one of the very first people to sign up and express my happiness about the existence of a scheduling system and my desire to use it. I still think it's a great idea, and I still think that if all the shells can work together (with this and anything else in-game), it will just make things more fun for everyone. And I have no issues with people calling out shells that are refusing to use the system (I think it's good, actually, to put pressure on the people that don't want to play nice, even if it won't do any good), but calling out names of
everyone in those shells and calling them "douchebags" isn't the right way to go about it. You want to call the leaders that made the decision douchebags, or call the members that act like assholes to other players douchebags, that's fine. But calling out everyone in a shell isn't fair.